Good Lifestyle

Each relationship is different and unique because each person is different and unique. But there are things that are true in one way or another in all relations. Things like love, trust, respect - they are universal and the key to any good relationship. So, if you are not sure of your relationship, or maybe you just wanted to get off a checklist and that you tap on the back on how you are awesome as a couple, we compiled a list things that can help you understand how strong your relationship is really.

1. You have a couple ritual
The rituals are important, they show that both interested in doing the same thing and treating the other time and business. These rituals can be something like the order to take away every Wednesday or go out to catch a movie every Saturday or even something smaller than dinner together or coffee in bed on Sunday.

2. Your lives are closely linked
When you are in a serious relationship, you really involve yourself. This means that you listen to the problems on the other, you know each other's friends, you worry about everyone's family.

3. You have more fun than fighting
The therapists generally relations agree that 5 to 1 is a good relationship. So, if you have 5 good days and 1 bad (one where you fight), or only 5 moments of joy and happiness to 1 argument - you do very well. It is important to remember that everyone bikers occasionally but as long as good things outweigh the evil - it's all good.

4. Your fights are just
When you have a fight - you're just. You do not intentionally try to hurt the other person and do not use their weaknesses against them. You know that some things are out of bounds and sensitive problems should never be made to an argument.

5. It does not matter who is right
When you encounter an argument or a fight, no matter who wins or who is right. It's just going to the bottom of the computer science and solving the problem by hand. You are listening and try to understand everyone's point of view and see if you can find a compromise.

6. You are comfortable
We all have some things we are a little sensitive about some complex and bad feelings on some parts of our body that we would not want to draw attention to or even to show other people. But if you feel completely comfortable with your partner and forget these problems when you are with them - you have a strong relationship.

7. You get up for each other
If your relationship is strong, you will always be ready to defend your partner. Even though at that time, you fight - you will always have the back if someone else is rude or trying to hurt or offend them.

8. Silent treatment is not part of your process
Whenever people give themselves a silent treatment, it means that they do not want to hear or talk to the person they are in conflict with, they do not care about solving the problem. So, if you do not give you the silent treatment and choose to talk about things - it's a good sign.

9.You can predict the actions and reactions of each
Many people think it's bad to be predictable. They think it means you are boring and there is no longer a pleasure to be. But in long-term relationships, being able to predict, it's a sign of knowledge of your partner and tend to meet their needs even before they need what they need.

10.Good the future
The fact that you plan for the future means a lot. Even if you have fights, but after them, you always talk to living together or go together in a different country or even make a trip in a few months means that you understand that everyone has its ups and down, but you Do not see them as a huge problem and are willing to work on your differences.