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As a strong independent woman in 2018, you might think that the notion of gaining more than your boyfriend should not really disturb someone, especially your other significant. I mean, what is there to complain? It should be so lucky, considering that the remuneration gap is always widespread and winning more than a man is more a lucky strike of this day and the norm. However, some men always feel bizarre about it. Discuss how your boyfriend can affect your relationship, both negatively and positively.

1. It highlights obsolete standards
We all want to think that we all exceeded traditional relationship roles, but the truth is still a lot of people who live in the past. You could discover that your friends, your family and even your boyfriend always enhance the obsolete beliefs that man should be the family provider.

2. Family tension
This is a direct result of the previous point we did. In some cases, these obsolete standards can even cause family tensions, where your loved ones might think it's not great for you and that your partner be together, because they believe you can do better, or that the guy you Have you chosen is not good enough just because it's less money.


3. Self-esteem Questions
Some men could even develop self-esteem problems. It's ridiculous but it's true. The psyche of a man can be a fragile thing. If they are used to be the supplier and the one who must be responsible all the time, this change in the dynamics of a relationship can damage their ego a little.

4. Intimacy issues
There is a man who claims that they simply lose their libido, because of the seriousness of the sentence of winning less. Somehow winning less money than their girlfriend makes them feel less of a man and that they end up feeling less confident and not being able to happen in bed.


5. Resentment
In rare cases, gaining less obliges men to feel their other. They begin to host feelings of hatred and anger towards their girlfriend, even if they know they should not and that it does not make sense.

6. You realize what counts
On the bright side, the difference in salary makes you both knowing what is really important in life. You start understanding that life does not concern flashy gifts or big gestures. It's about how you think of each other and the little things in life.


7. You will learn why you love you
When you win more than your boyfriend, you both learn why you really love you. Men do not have to worry if the woman is with them because of their money, and women should not constantly depend on their boyfriend for financial support.


8. He sees the playground
You say essentially goodbye to gender standards. Men do not expect you to cook them every night or clean the apartment. In fact, they could even surprise you with a breakfast in bed once in a while.

9. You must be the one to treat it
Sometimes it is nice that a woman is able to treat their man with a nice gift or take him to a date. Not only does it feel like treating your other significant, but it can also make you feel empowered.


10. You feel secure in your future
When you earn more, you know you can support anything. It attenuates the tension that sometimes exists when men think they are supposed to think constantly at the way they will provide to the family. This also makes you feel more confident in your abilities and projects for the future.