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A lot of time people think that being in a relationship is easy, it's a smooth navigation from here, but Oh, what is the false. The first days of a relationship are like a field of mines of clumsy situations. There are so many things that can go wrong. So let's talk about some of the awkward things that occur in the relationships and how to treat them.

1. say that I love you
Let's start with the most obvious. To say that I love you too early can be very clumsy. And it's great if you get one in return, but it does not always happen. Sometimes you just get a thank you or an embarrassing silence. This does not necessarily mean that the person you have just opened has no feelings for you, but maybe they just do not read them to put them into words. It is always good to be patient in these situations and not have great expectations.


2. Buy a toothbrush for their place
In the first days of a relationship, you spend a lot of time in the houses of each, but it's hard to understand when it is appropriate to leave things behind. It's one thing to bring a toothbrush with you, because you know you stay overnight, but you choose to leave it in their bathroom, you always have something else. The best case scenario is to deliver with flippancy to buy a toothbrush for your partner when you are in a store and do not do a lot of things.


3. Running in family members
When you go out with the person with whom you see and that it is the first stages of a relationship that meets family members can be really embarrassing. What will they think? What will they say? And if they embark on you? How do you introduce themselves? You even talk to them or do you pretend that you did not see them? The best thing to do is stay away from labels. It could be too early to introduce the person you see as your girlfriend or boyfriend, so simply introduce them by name and control the conversation.


4. Running in your ex
What can be even more troublesome works in your ex when you are on a date. This can create a lot of tension and make you feel uncomfortable and embarrassing. The best thing to do is to be honest. Do not lie and do not say"Oh it was an old friend" or SMTH. Say it's your ex. And if you are uncomfortable around them - just say your date"Hey, it's my ex and I do not really want to see them, can we go elsewhere?" It's so easy.


5. Accidentally offend them
You do not really know everything there is to know about the person at the beginning of a relationship, so it's easy to say something wrong without realizing and offensing them accidentally. I mean, the best way to solve this problem is simply apologizing, but in general, it is better to get away from what you have not really discussed before. Because you never know how a person will react. If you feel the need to discuss something controversial, start with a question and see from there.


6. Social media
A few years ago a few years ago, we would not even have this problem, but these days, not only, you must not only worry about knowing when is it appropriate to mention your relationship with your family or If it is correct to invite them for Christmas, but even post an image with them on Facebook or Instagram is a huge deal too. It's a bit that the world knows both of you. And then there is all the problem with your relationship status on Facebook. Walking carefully. Do not post Lovey Dovey photos immediately. You do not know how they will react. Maybe simply post pictures to hang out with them in a group of friends, if it's just you two - do it relaxed.