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Most of us grew up watching Disney movies and Hollywood movies, where incredibly beautiful women tend to fall in love with men just as beautiful and everything works like a magic. A lot of time all this takes only change your appearance or style a bit to find a perfect partner. Relationships usually do not require any work, they are simply easy or are not supposed to be. Do not even start with the idea of ​​finding "the one". Many of these things start like a movie or something we read in a book and they are in some kind in a myth relationship that we interpret as a real life expectancy and it is not good. Real relationships are rarely also effortlessly as the fiction, then discuss some of the most dangerous relationship myths.

Myth 1:Perfect relationship
There is no perfect relationship. They simply do not exist. Relationships are all people and people are not perfect, they are fundamentally imperfect. Nobody can be perfect all the time. They can be good, they can be treated, decent and charming, but not perfect. Everyone goes through a rough patch and it's normal. The important thing is to remember that communication is the key and you can solve much while talking to your partner.

Myth 2:Happy couples do not fight
Here is another myth of the stupid relationship. Many people think that happy couples never fight or even argu themselves, they just agree all the time. But this is not true. Everyone argues, in fact, arguing is a normal and necessary part of any relationship, so you work through problems and find a way to solve it or find a compromise. The arguments have a bad reputation and people think that if you discuss a lot, it means you will break you soon. But in fact, people who complain more are more likely to overcome their problems and stay together longer.


Myth 3:A good partner knows what you want and need
Let's be a right thing - no one knows what you want or if you need unless they say, unless they are of course. But what is the probability that this? A good partner can not just know as by magic what you think at some point and what you want or need at a certain time. They will learn to anticipate some things and read your body language, but that's all. Work simply on communication and let your partner know what you want. The lesson here is: a good partner is not the one that reads your mind, but the one who speaks to you, asks questions and listening.


Myth 4:If you do not find a partner, you must change your appearance
The experimentation of your appearance is great, but it should be done for its own pleasure and pleasure, not to please someone else. If you prefer to wear sneakers and jeans and that's what makes you feel comfortable, it is not necessary to start carrying pencil skirts and heels to attract a man. This is not the way it works. And what is the point of attracting someone who will not be in the real you, but in this strange version of people you are trying to be? Be yourself.

Myth 5:A case always means a break
While business is hurtful and damaged, they do not always end up relationships. All this attitude of "I could never be with someone who deceived me" works for some, but it is not obliged to be the only option. Many people in long-term relationships deal with someone with a connection, or cheating once, it's hard, but with forgiveness and a lot of work, people spend the past and have long-term relationships. It is not obliged to be the end of everyone.


Myth 6:'The one'
All this idea of ​​being "the one" is absolutely ridiculous. There is no soulmate and concept of one person who will be perfect for you is almost crazy. This leads to people looking for someone who will be absolutely perfect, who does not really exist. If you find someone incredible, but they do not match a certain dream criterion - it does not mean that they are not good enough or they are not "those". Do not miss wonderful people simply because they do not match your strange idea of ​​a perfect partner.


Myth 7:You should never go to bed angry
We are not even sure where it says, but we all heard about so many times we started to believe. This kind of state of mind can sometimes do more damage than good. If you encounter an argument and you will not have anywhere, think you have to solve everything at that time and you can only get climb and out of control. If it's a night, go to bed, you'll be much more rested in the morning and better equipped to deal with this situation.


Myth 8:Marriage is the final goal
Too many people think that a marriage is the ultimate goal of any successful relationship or a logical step for those who have been together for a long time. This is not exactly the case for everyone. Some people do not intend to get married and it is not necessary to feel in a hurry to marry someone, because you have been with them for a few years. On the other hand, it is also stupid not to go out with someone you think you can enjoy your time with, simply because they do not look like what you imagine your future husband.