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When you are in a relationship and your partner asks you to marry you that most people become overwhelmed with emotions and the best they can master is a "yes" tear. The following is the month of marriage planning. Choose places, finding the ideal dress, deciding the theme of the party and the restoration to get. All this is great, but it is often possible to discuss very important things, such as your fundamental values, your vision of the world and your plans for the future and whether or not they coincide. Here is a convenient list of questions to ask your fiance before getting married.

1. Do you want children?
It's a big. Of course, at the moment when you might not want children, but what about the future? Both do you accept speaking again in 5 years? Maybe you already know that along the line you want children, but if your partner does not do it? And if it's a difficult pass for him? You can not just hope that their opinions will change over time.

2. Are you compatible as roommates?
It's one thing if you stay on locations on the other overnight or two, but once you start living together - it's another story. Who cooking? Who cleans? How do you decorate your place and taking care of the pet? Do you even have a pet? Do your sleep schedules and work coincide? All these things might seem small at the moment, but in the future they could become causes of huge arguments and even a divorce, so talk about it now.


3. Where do you stand with families on the other?
You do not need to be better friends with their mother or father, but be in good relationships with the families of each. You will inevitably have to see them from time to time, and during the holidays, then you now, if you can not stand the view, it will definitely put a strain on your wedding.

4. How long alone to need you?
Currently, you might think that spend all your time together is a good idea. But realistically, you do not really spend all your time together right now. So think about that. Maybe you need a day to yourself? Or maybe your partner considers that the gym is his only once and does not want you to join him? Maybe it's even something as simple as having coffee in the morning in silence and maybe your partner wakes up simply wanting to speak right away. All these things count in the long run and you have to discuss these preferences with each other before that, it does not make you resolve yourself when one of you is at home while waiting for the other, while They came out with friends, after having their weekly evening.


5. What are your computer travel projects?
Many people think of marriage as settling. And all this means that it just means installing with a person because it means to settle in the same place. It's something that needs to be discussed early. And if you want to travel the world and live in every country or every city for a little bit, while your partner simply wants to buy a house and finally have some kind of stability in their lives.

6. What do you think about keeping appearances?
In an ideal world, we would all like to look great all the time. However, the truth is that we do not look awesome all the time. We try louder at the beginning of a relationship or a wedding, but we simply want to be comfortable. What do you think of your partner to spend a whole day in tracksuitants or not shaving for a while? The weight gain is a common problem, how much would it bother you? How do you discuss that without hurting their feelings? All of this are better discussed in advance than in the heat of the moment.


7. What are you waiting for in the bedroom?
Not only is it important what your partner loves, but also, what do you like and how to communicate that to your partner. You do not want to be 5 years old in your wedding and always fight that you did not really enjoy this thing they do. In addition, after waiting for a long time to talk about sexual preferences even more troublesome at the end. You must be clear on these kinds of things, because, in the end, your pleasure is on the line.


8. What is all of you ready to give up?
It seems scary but it is not necessary. Imagine a scenario where your partner gets a great job in a different country or just a different city. Would you be ready to give up and move with them? God is going for children, who you expect to take care of them. Which of you will give up his professional life for a while to raise them? Or will you have a baby-sitter?

9. Do you understand everyone's language of love?
This may seem ringard, but this book about 5 languages ​​of love rings in most cases. We all interpret love differently. Some of us see an affection and cuddling as the best way to show their love, others prefer gifts. Some of us could not commit themselves from flowers, but washing dishes, dusting or aspiration and other acts of the best way to really show you. We do not say you have to speak both the same language of love, but you have to learn and understand.


10. Is it more than love?
You might think "What's more than love?". Is not it the most important thing? Well ... for a wedding ... You really need more. You must love yourself, you completely complement yourself in order to make life together not only nice but actually joyful. Respect is important, so if your partner has some beliefs that you do not really believe yourself - you have to learn to respect and accept them, not just to reject them. Can you really live together? How about working together? Can you come to mutual decisions and agreements or are not it a fan of compromise? In the end, you want to enjoy your wedding, not just tolerate it.