12 things your boyfriend will eventually try to hide
Now ask for some of these topics that can make your boyfriend as slightly uncomfortable.
First of all, I do not know what I feel about the representative and the spokesman for men, because #Notallmen (lol). Secondly, I feel soon or later my own girlfriend will stumble on these and I will have to do a lot of explanation. Thus, before we entered all the secrets, the little friends may not remain or not to remain of their individuals, a responsibility of non-responsibility: I am always completely and totally honest, because the trust and the opening are the foundation of any good relationship. So, now to deepen a couple of these subjects that can make your boyfriend as little uncomfortable.
1. Who is their celebrity
The best case scenario, he will feel awkward to tell you who is their celebrity crushes. After all, at the very least, it means that you are not the only person in mind 24/7. The worst case is that your feelings could be hurt because you do not look like Scarlett Johansson or Rihanna.
2. Who is his celebrity crude
Take the clumsiness and the offense to know their celebrity and multiply by 100, because a non-celebrity is (potentially) even more threatening. As, there is no chance of having ever met Megan Fox (is she the celebrity crust of someone who is always someone?), But their colleague or their best friend is right there.
3. What topics / people they speak with their friends
Conversations between close friends can cover anything and trust between two best-mutual friends opens conversations to the most intimate details of personal life and preferences.
4. Their favorite hip-hop songs
Hip-hop songs (especially the top 40, the popular type) tend to be at least a little misogynist and homophobic. Otherwise, they can be graphic and vulgar enough. Now, of course, there is Kanye West and Kendrick Lamar and J. Cole, but there is also Remy Ma, Tyler, the creator and the handles of death. I believe that people can enjoy the type of music they love, and it's not necessarily a reflection of their personality. However, experience shows that everyone does not like that.
5. Their favorite rocky ballads
If they have a fragile masculinity (for example, they are "soft" and should not be classified as machist warriors), can you imagine how difficult it will be to admit that they appreciate the sappy ballads, love about love and deep commitment?
6. Their image and fitness objectives
I have the impression that in our capitalist society, everyone is at least a little unfortunate of their body and their image. So, of course, your boyfriend will not tell you that he wants to look like Ryan Gosling because what he thinks it will do is immediately make you start comparing what you have and what you could have had if your little Friend put the effort to stop eating a pizza and go to the gym. "Look at your man. Look at me now. Now look at your man."
7. The stupid shit they spend money on
Budgeting is difficult. Expenses responsibly are almost impossible. And, finally, sharing the type of stupid shit you spend your money simply be embarrassing to reveal them.
8. How boring he finds your stories
Your boyfriend certainly does not want to hurt your feelings, but I can guarantee that at least 20% (the best scenario) of your stories weakened him out of his mind. But he loves you, then he will live politely and ask for follow-up questions over half the time for it to look like what you still have something to talk about these days.
9. What he thinks when he keeps it hard together but said"I'm fine"
This one is the most universal. Sometimes you just know that it is better to keep your mouth closed and let anger disappear before discussing important relationship issues. So,"I'm fine" Never mean they are going well, but it's your signal to leave them alone and harassing them with subsequent questions.
10. That he was considered breaking with you
This one is explicit and also includes thinking about"What life would have been with this other person" and"What life would have been if they were single" and"Who gets TV and is it just that you get everything and I do not get anything?"
11. His happiness guilty pop song Pop tastes
It seems that these days, everyone has decided that "guilty pleasures" are not one thing and everyone can love the kind of pop fade and boring music they want to love, but maybe your A boyfriend does not want you to know that he is completely completely obsessed with Carly Rae Japsen or Britney Spears.
12. How much does it really valor your relationship
Can you imagine being completely open on how you like a person? This amount of vulnerability is almost impossible to be comfortable. If you knew how much they love you, you will probably benefit from you. All. The. Time.!