14 ways to fall in love with yourself and be a better you
Who needs a BAE when you can listen in your own beautiful, smart and talented self? These tips will help you crawling in love with yourself and kissing the things you thought.
With Valentine's Day not too far behind us, it's the ideal time of the year to remind us that you love is just as important as showing love to others. And more often, "someone special" that we neglect ourselves! Who needs a BAE when you can lounging in your own beautiful, smart and talented self? These tips will help you fall madly in love with yourself and kiss the things you thought you were afraid.
1. Instead of feeling like you need a partner to complete you, focus on being grateful for things and the obligations that are already in your life, like your amazing friends and family. These are links that will always be there for you, and no matter what, and you must realize that you are from these connections too!
2. Look at friends when you feel bad at you - when we are at the lowest, our friends always tell you why they love you, and why you are worth the pain of love. When looking into a mirror and seeing a distorted version of the beauty that we really are, we need loved ones to remind us.
3. Never compare your story, or someone else ambition. Comparing life (especially on social media). Absorbing all this information is unhealthy, see especially as what people are right after a culminating spool of their own life. Stop scrolling if the mini-food and understand that all our goals and happiness is totally subjective, and our control. It's all about perception.
4. Stay humble and try not to be stubborn. Learning new things can get us out of our comfort zone and continue to accumulate new knowledge and wisdom, which are so valuable to reflection on oneself and at the same time to know and love ourselves.
5. Accept your faults. Embrace your oddity rather than trying to avoid it. What makes you a funny bird that makes you so unique and friendly to friends and family, so why should it be different for yourself?
6. Be comfortable with time alone, and learn to love and need it! Spending time with a hot BAE or having one of the night girls are the two wonderful things, but it's simply relaxing and having a solitary night of silence with Pope Olivia and some Mac and cheese. Love the time alone love you!
7. Always dance. This can be in said solitary dance parts, or while cleaning the house. It will naturally hurt you, and you do not need to be in a Sloshy club environment to get there. It's similar to make you smile - it's hard to dance and bad mood or stay bad on yourself!
8. Never try to be someone you are not, for the good of something or someone else. This involves being honest with yourself, but also be a little vulnerable and putting a "persona" that can protect you. Being yourself can come back to a sense of inner peace and natural confidence, although it may seem scary.
9. Take on a good fancy dinner of your choice at least once every two weeks. You do not need a man to enjoy a candlelight meal! A steak and a glass of fantasy of the taste of red wine just as delicious with the impressive company of yourself. A great practice with confidence.
10. Travel to a new place - it should not be on the other side of the globe, but travel helps us out of our comfort zone and exposes us to many other cultures and lifestyles, enjoy our own life More, and fall in love with cities and from you along the way.
11. Volunteer Try! Help others can often bring you joy, and a strong sense of self-fulfillment and purpose. It can even be a path to become your own model and a hero.
12. Speaking of hero, take a book on anti-heroin or binge watching a girl power girl! Often, the main protagonist in a book or film is low insecurity, or depend on men or others. Find a Badass, confident heroine and look at her as your goddess until you become your own.
13. Put the focus on strengths rather than weaknesses! Do not beat or practice negative self. You are superb and intelligent and innovative, and every bit is worthy of love - even your weaknesses. Stop seeing them as such, and just see them like features that exist and are just as beautiful, but you're trying to self-improve.
14. When you get relationships, remember to focus on a sense of independence rather than taking the identity of a "woman" or "girlfriend", because it can reduce your achievements and how you are Extraordinary on your own! And after rupture, you will be able to heal faster because you will always be in love with yourself.
