Good Lifestyle

The major role of women has always been that of a mother. Women are physically and psychologically to replicate a new life. Many girls can remember their mothers say - "No man will never want you to do not want you to do not want children!" But we still live in the century of emancipation, when women take foreground roles, build careers, make scientific advances, in other words - governing the world. And the number of women who refuse to get pregnant have also increased. Is it because a role of Superwoman no longer includes maternity? In fact, there are many reasons why women prefer that women prefer to be free of children.

1. Psychological fear

This may seem ridiculous, but today there are several phobias related to the issue of children. Tokophobia, which is the fear of infant birth affects 1 out of 10 women today. Women are afraid of the birth of the child tend to postpone pregnancy or refuse the idea of ​​having children at all. Tokophobia has evolved as a result of the hearing of the negative experiences of the birth of children despite the evolution of modern medicine. Another kind is pedophobia which is the fear of children in general. Women call small, noisy creatures of children ', "Aliens" can not stand the idea of ​​"to". It is a very real phobia and must be examined honestly.

2. Career

Women who have decided to make a brilliant career see children as a barrier. You can not work productively during pregnancy and you need to take care of the smaller ones after birth. Many women do not believe that it is possible to balance your mother and professional growth. Especially if you are a celebrity. Most successful ladies believe that they will come at a time when they should choose between glory, beloved work, dedicated fans and maternity. So they prevent it, choosing a free zone for children.

"I love children, and I like being around children, but it was never an ambition, something like that, I need [them]. … I like to work. That's what I like to do. I like to work."(Zooey Deschanel)

3. Personal Priorities

Some call selfishness, but every person has the right to choose what is more important in their lives. And if a woman never felt the need to be a mother - so she will probably have other goals to continue - different priorities for her life. This can travel around the world, develop talents or serve other people - in other words, do things that make it really happy. What do the famous Hollywood divas think on this point?

"I have an incredible life. In some ways, I have the life I have because I do not have children.(Cameron Diaz)

"I like small suction cups; They are so cute, but I like sleeping and I'm worried about everything. '

(Eva Mendes)

4. Financial number

Do not feel economically safe prevents women from becoming mothers. Many women believe that to have a child, you must be financial and confident about your social status. It's not a secret that children are expensive. And if a woman today does not have this level of financial security, she will believe that she "can not afford" to have a child. On the other side, some women appreciate their financial flexibility as much as they prefer not to give it for children wearing children. Many women living in modern society share Ashley Judd's opinion:

"He is unconscious to reproduce, with the number of hungry children to death in poor countries."

5. Male role. Lack of maternal instinct

With the rise offeminismAnd trying to get equality with men, women began to refuse the maternal role. "If men do not fall pregnant, what should we do?" Women see that the birth of the child as a burden, unjustly affected to women. They try to show that they should not be treated as reproductive machines. Women also have other missions in life, in addition to the education of children and children. Is there a new paradym for women in society today? Nobody has the right answer. More women today do not even pay the idea or possess the desire to have children - even to project in the future of ten or fifteen years, it seems not to be a possibility.

"I do not have maternal instincts, maternity does not interest me any interest in me.(Helen Mirren)

Have babies or do not have babies - that's the question

Entering a frank zone for children or getting pregnant is a choice each woman is for herself and has the right not to be judged for that. With the external and internal reasons mentioned, it is not surprising that modern women face such a dilemma. But what really matters is that women understand all the implications of their choice and the consequences and responsibility it will bring.