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Finding a guy or a nice woman is getting harder and harder over time. Many of us need to dedicate ourselves more to our homes and our work, which ends up making the process of finding the perfect pair a little more challenging and time consuming. After all, how to know if what you are feeling is really love?

Here are some tips to identify if the person you have been leaving with for a short time has the potential to turn a love for life or if it is simply a short -term case, pure and simple desire.

Does he love you? Early signs of love

Of course, love is a construction and that there are hardly three meetings will be enough for this feeling to solidify in the heart of the person you are interested in. However, some evidence that this person really wants to make it happen are:

• A true concern for your well-being: Do you know when someone is coming to talk to ulterior motives? If your partner doesn't have this posture and really seems to want to know how you are, you may really enjoy you.
• Genuine interest in your life: Looks like the person wants to know your stories, your family, your fears and dreams without using it against you? So, point for her.
• Constant presence: She wants to be close in good times is not new, but also in the bad? You may have found a new love.
• Affection without sex: Have you had moments of affection that were not followed by sex? This indicates that there is something beyond desire.
• Respect for your limits: If you are just a means to this person's ultimate goal (getting physical and sexual contact), it is quite possible that they do not respect your limits and press you during uncomfortable situations. Someone who respects your limits is most likely to love you.

Finally, depending on how much you talk outside of these meetings, it can be difficult to know if it's real love so soon in the relationship, but these tips may help.

Does he want you? Signs that it is purely physical

There is nothing wrong with a shallow and purely desire relationship, if that's what you both want. This kind of relationship does not always have emotional depth, and some signs that he or she wants something like that are:

• Casual or sex -oriented meetings: If the three meetings you have had with the person so far have been only geared towards sex, it is possible to be desire.
• SUPERFICIAL CONVERTS: Have you not yet talked about your families, your work or hobbies? A sign of a relationship based only on desire is whether the conversations so far have been very superficial.
• Escapes deep subjects: If, when you start talking about something deeper, the person avoids answering or changing the subject, it may be not interested in love.
• Add after sex: After the sexual act, he or she stayed longer for you to talk more? If not, it may be that everything is based on a passing desire.

It is worth noting that the seeds of love in the first encounters may be hidden in small gestures and that pure desire is quite common in the beginning of relationships, even those who eventually become loving and lasting.

It is also important to assess whether you just feel desire or if you think the person you are meeting has the potential to be something else. It may still be early to decide, but it is not recommended to create illusions that every butterfly in the stomach is reason to think it's real love.