≡ Not the story of Hanh, men do not want to marry women who used to live for these reasons! 》 Her Beauty
Having a living can become a major barrier for a woman in a marriage.
Having a living can become a major barrier for a woman in a marriage. Not a virginity, here are the revelations of men about their depression when married women who used to live!
Doubt of fidelity
The decision to enter the period of cohabitation before marriage is a serious decision of women. Therefore, they may have to consider and be particularly serious with their relationship. If there was such a deep relationship, would the woman be able to wholeheartedly, wholeheartedly with new people without any Vuong King to the old person? This question is one of the obsessions of men in their relationship with a woman who has been to live.
Although the habit of judging a woman based on their private past is not suitable for modern trends, in reality, women who have lived together before marriage are often associated with the image of lack of Nghiem. Tuc and lifestyle are too liberal. Therefore, men often doubt about the fidelity of these women in a new relationship with them. You may be worried that the arbitrary life is one of the reasons why their women always feel "craving, quickly" and can easily deceive the opponent.
Social pressure
In Asian social culture, the image of an ideal wife is often associated with innocence and private life is not too complicated. Therefore, women who have had relationships before marriage often become the focus of public opinion, receiving all the heavy average, "words in and out" of the people around them. Many families of "Dang Trai" still keep the traditional concept, saying that living is contrary to morality and affecting the honor of their family and wondering about the ability to educate the children of the woman who has had The past is liberal. Although the man may have an open view of the opponent's virginity, his family and relatives are not necessarily thinking.
Even if there is intense love for "the other half", moving to marriage with a woman who has been able to live can make a man encounter a series of pressure from many sides and therefore, they cannot avoid it. From sorrow, bewilderment. If the family of the "Dang Trai" is strict and dissatisfied with the woman who has an intimate relationship with others, they can also cause heavy pressure for both sides throughout the journey. From love to the couple's wedding.
Fear of the "shadow" of the old
The intimate dating of women often haunt many men. When developing feelings for a woman who has been a living, men are also afraid of being placed by a woman on the scale compared to "old people". When women have deeply loved and wholeheartedly in the previous relationship, they may have more psychological and demanding psychology in new relationships. Therefore, they often compare sincere love with a more superficial and more hesitant relationship in later relationships. Therefore, dating a woman who has been a living will make you feel insecure and always worry that you will not be able to "retain" the person you love.
Men worried beautiful memories with "old people" will become too big shadow, making their current love will become faded. In such a situation, the man will always feel jealous, and feel the pressure to prove himself to the woman he loves.