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The light of the light of a brighter future for the Arab world is not always easy, as it must often understand perceptions, cultures, religions and laws and respect them when thinking about change and its publication, and one of the most important pillars of this bright future is the woman; Which plays a role that can never be underestimated in the Contemporary Family Foundation, and the truth is that the position of Arab women is strengthened a little thanks to the availability of educational opportunities and then joining the labor market that enabled them to achieve economic independence and build their personality differently, which was reflected in her role in her contemporary family, Here is a look at the role of Arab mothers in the contemporary family:

Modern positive education

From my long experience, I can say that raising children at the present time is not an easy thing, as there has become a great mixing between the correct and wrong principles, between the directives that will guide children to safety and those that will make him another version of others, and focus on modern positive education methods On effective communication with children and promoting the idea that there are no good and other bad children; There are only different children who have different needs and different interests that parents should pay attention to.

Modern education challenges for mothers

Psychological treatment for children and adolescents Olga Supra confirms that the positive education process is very stressful for mothers; Because it requires listening to the child and leaving a freedom space for him in order to express his needs in addition to teaching him relaxation in order to adopt the method of dialogue with the child and not to resort to the old negative methods of education, as well as the mother’s permanent attention to her words with her children until he adopts new rules for dealing.

Respect for the personality of children

In the past, our mothers had different methods of education that require breaking children (morally), where we must listen to the words of adults all the time regardless of the extent of its validity, and we must respect them and do not raise our voices, and this pattern of education made us shaken, and unable to trust ourselves Or our actions, but most contemporary mothers have changed those rules; These days, the personality of the children must be respected, and this should be to build an independent personality from you; For example, the child must learn to wear his clothes alone, collect his games, help the mother in arranging his room, participating in some minor decisions such as eating food and the exit place and the film that we will see together, at an early age.

Principles of building the personality of children

From my follow -up to contemporary mothers, whether my friends on social media or mothers of inspiring influences on Instagram, I see that Arab women have achieved great success in building the personality of their children in a healthy way, and they are the same principles that the writer Jin Nielsen talked about in her book “Positive Education” (Positive Discipline) and the most important These principles: