Understand if your partner deserves you or not
Understanding whether your partner deserves it or not is not impossible, just pay attention to those small signals that we will talk about in this article.
Love is blind, it comes without notice, it does not give too many explanations. You just love each other, spontaneously. However, it is not easy to engage, dedicate attention, soul and body in a relationship in which a person gives all this for granted: there is a risk that the relationship will become harmful. It will have happened to many in love or to live a relationship in which, suddenly, one realizes that one's partner does not deserve our care against them. However, if you want to prevent it in the future or that this unfortunate opportunity should never present, just pay attention to those small signals that we will talk about in this article.
The lies
The first piece of a healthy and mutual relationship is the trust, variable that inevitably does not preclude any kind of lie. The lies not only have short legs but are, above all, synonymous with lack of respect. Honesty is spontaneous, immediate, it does not need to hide.
Unreliability
It can happen to anyone who forgetting anniversaries, special anniversaries or getting lost important events but the important thing is that this is done with selfishness: one's partner, in times of real need, must not leave room for any kind of hesitation and must not instill the doubt that it may be present or not. Your partner will simply have to be there: deserve the love of one's partner also consists in being reliable.
Quarrels
It is not necessary to raise your voice to communicate your opinion, just as you should not mount any form of discussion in something that goes beyond the core of the matter. The exasperation leads only to a passive to indulge, or a way not to give weight to the opinions of one's partner.
Diminish
A direct consequence of the quarrel (often also a decisive factor of the disputes) is the fact of diminishing the value of anything you do: if your partner or partner does not go well even half and considers you an inept or an incapable , well, the time has come to give it up and to be asserted.
Flirt after flirt
Being sociable is an account…. try constantly with anyone who is another. The serenity of couple also passes through the seriousness of their partner! This means that an exit with friends must not turn into an excuse to go around to make the farmhouse with everyone. Unless you live an open relationship ...
Physical contact
Physical contact is a fundamental variable to understand if your partner keeps us and, consequently, whether or not it deserves it. Individuals instinctively touch the object, so to speak, of their relationship and we do not necessarily speak in purely sexual terms, it can be done both in private and in public, in the right ways and always with respect and education. If, for example, the partner touches the face of his beloved, this makes intimacy understand; Touching the shoulders or touching the low parts of the back or legs is synonymous with attraction.
The demonstrations of affection
And we close with one of the most important aspects of a relationship: the demonstrations of affection. Who doesn't like being loved and desired? To manifest interest and joy in sharing the relationship with your partner, sometimes, just a small gesture, a caress, a hug or a simple interest of what has been done during the day is enough. Happiness must be demonstrated and love must always be communicated to the person you love.
