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Especially in recent decades there has been a high divorce rate, especially for couples who married before the age of 30. According to couple therapists and experts, most marriages have not lasted for more than eight years. The quota is relatively high, especially in America, every second marriage ends with a divorce.

Many people also choose to stay single, disappointed with their relationships or simply because they were unable to find the kind of person who could inspire them for the rest of their lives.

One of the reasons is that our relationship management is actually getting worse. We have expectations of the other person, for the wrong reasons we chose the wrong person, we promote conflicts instead of finding the right way to close peace or deal with misunderstandings in adults.

Some mistakes are larger than the others, which is why we like to share the 6 largest relationship killers with them, according to psychologists and couple therapists.

Ignore the feelings and needs of the other person

If you are caught in your own bubble, the other person is reduced to a decorative level. In such a dramatic situation, we are constantly ignoring the needs of the partner and thinking about ourselves again and again. The most important thing is that you take time regularly and ask the others what exactly the expectations and needs are. Such a reflexive way can save the relationship from a slow but permanent death.

Argue in an inappropriate way

Dispute, or rather the disagreement between two people, is quite normal and can often occur over time. However, there are various ways to participate in a dispute, and the way a certain thing is said can change dramatically depending on the tone or arguments used.

Therefore, it is very important how to choose your own words. It is important not only to think twice about whether the fight is really worthwhile, but also whether there is a chance to end the debate on good, respectful conditions. Some people have such bad aggression management that they will end the fight with a ticket for a lonely life as a single.

Too much criticism

It is perfectly fine not to be perfect, and this applies to both us and our spouse or partner. However, as already mentioned, it is very important to be able to find the right words in order to describe a typical situation or to express your contradiction to a specific topic. If we are critical, we may attack the nature of someone. We may be dissatisfied with what the person looks like, speaks or attracts. Definitely a ´no go´ for your partner. After all, why spend time with someone it seems that you don't like him or her? The attempt to change someone is a very bad move in a relationship.

Too many emotions

People need a break from each other every now and then. If we spend too much time together, we may be flooded by emotions and cannot distinguish what we really like and what we do by default or because we have no idea what else we should do. It is respectful if you decide to get together with someone alone because of what this person is, with all of your advantages and disadvantages.

Concentrate on the negative aspects

The extremes are neither good in life nor in a relationship. Either too appreciative or too negative, they are certainly on the wrong path and without a significant change, their relationship aims at slow death. Especially when it comes to negative aspects, you can feel overwhelmed by self -doubt. If we do not feel good in a relationship about ourselves, how can we accept to progress with our life story?

Avoid important conversations

Put your head in the sand when it comes to important conversations is always the wrong way. All of these unsolved problems pay out in many cases. The longer you avoid talking about important topics of your relationship, the faster the relationship with a source of frustration and misfortune becomes.

What do you think? Have you experienced one or some of these wrong steps in a relationship? We can't wait to hear your opinion!