Good Lifestyle

Having a crush is a crazy thing - it gives you butterflies and is just as exciting as it is terrifying. Many of us act in an irrational or inappropriate way when we have a crush without even realizing it. Some of these things could compromise how the relationship takes place. Here are the best things you should not do when you have a crush on someone.

1. Tall it

We all make a good social media rod from time to time, but there is a difference between hiding on his Instagram or Facebook and tracking him down in person. In addition to being illegal, tracking down a guy gives off sticky and needy vibrations that you certainly do not want to do.

2. Talk bad about her friends or his ex

It doesn't matter if they are his current or his ex-flame, it is never cool to hit another woman. Even if he has resentment towards her, this is not well reflected in yourself and your sense of integrity. If he goes out with someone, don't blame her! It is not her fault - she just has the same taste for men. Even if he flirts with you and sends mixed messages in a relationship, it's not his fault - it's him! So don't want to feel rejected.

3. Hypersexualizing

Just as women do not appreciate being lorded and making people talk about their objects. This will make him feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable if you continue publicly on his abs, his loot and all the naughty things you want to do. Of course, you can chat with your friends of this kind of thing, but continue on the DL to avoid starting rumors or ask someone to publish it online.

4. Be too persistent after rejection

If you refuse, accept it graciously and go to the next person who appreciates you for whom you are. If you continue to ask him to go out, again and again, it's not only rude, it's arrogant and sometimes even scary. Instead of harassing a guy who explained how he feels clear, find someone else! There are a lot of fish in the sea.

5. Base your whole life around him

Having an independent life and your own interests are essential in a relationship. If you act as if the world revolves around your crush, then your whole world could crash in the seconds that go wrong. No matter how incredible the guy is, it’s not worth wasting all your time. Study, playing your favorite sport or focusing on your own interests is more important, and they will also make you more interesting for potential suitors.

6. Believe it is too good for you

Low self -esteem is a disappointment, but it affects the best of us. Rather than criticizing yourself, remember all the big things about you. No matter your appearance, confidence is enormous when it comes to attracting guys or girls. If he refused you, do not make a list of all the reasons why he might not like you - make a list of the reasons why he is ridiculous to refuse a baby like you.

7. Try to make him jealous

This is only a form of game, and we recommend that it do not do it at all with regard to potential romantic partners. It is manipulator and childish. Do not talk about other guys around the one you are interested in, and do not try to flirt or connect with others during the holidays to make it jealous. Instead, follow the mature road and continue a guy at a time.

8. Do not too Texer and be awkward in person

When you hide behind a screen, it is much easier to say your mind and to be courageous with this guy worthy of fainting for which you have something. But if you avoid it in face -to -face situations, even if it is simply because you are anxious or nervous, it could identify the bad signals. He might even think that you are embarrassed to be seen with him. Instead, try to keep your cool and smile or use another form of body language to indicate interest.

9. Pretend to be someone else

Being yourself is the most important key when you get a crush to see you. After all, you want them to love you for who is your authentic self, not who you are trying to be or who you think you want you to be. If he really loves you, it's intended for being! In addition, being yourself and possessing who you are is extremely sexy for guys.