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Love is not easy and you need a lot of time to build a relationship. Love is progressing through love advertising and exams. The intensity of love depends on your cultural and social background, your family trauma or your experiences, age and history that you have built over time.

However, the specialists believe that there are mainly eight phases that a relationship goes through. In fact, relations happen simply, but it is up to us, continue or not to deepen and develop a relationship. The longer you are with someone, the higher the likelihood of experiencing all these eight phases.

1.Love and romance

This phase occurs at the beginning of the relationship. It is this magical moment, shortly after you got to know yourself, if you want to tell the other again: 'I can not live without you'. In the beginning of the relationship, it is important to see the positive sides of the other, his extraordinary character and its strengths. Everything is romance as you can find in movies and books.

2. Complacement

If you reach this phase, there is already a serious twist in your relationship. At the moment you know more about the other person, what he or she likes, does not like what the common interests are and what you prefer do not do to annoy him. Less romance, but more reality. You can nourish expectations that can be fulfilled - therefore your high spirits - or not - are you disappointed. It is very important to spend more time with the other person to understand, but also answer questions to what extent this person can respond to your needs.

3.Challenge

At this next phase your relationship The prevailing feelings are anger, frustration and disappointment. Many relationships do not survive this phase. It's the moment you realize that your needs of your partners can not be answered while you have trouble understanding what exactly your partner is doing. And not only that, you can find that you are annoyed by his habits and wishes. The chance to survive together in this phase is to try to understand the needs of the other more empathic. If you find at the end of the way that for'uns' is not a place, better continues ...

4.Full faith

Now you both land in the comfort zone. You know more or less, what you can expect from the other person and tends to consider each other as a matter of course. After all, you have survived so many storms together and your relationship looks stronger than ever.

5.Sexual discovery

In this phase, their sex life becomes qualitatively different and very passionate. You fully agree with your partner and are dedicated to each other with passion. Communication is more direct and so are the feelings.

6.stability

If the relationship of this stage has reached, this means that the two partners are happy together and both have fulfilled the expectations of the other. It is a ripe phase in which the differences are accepted on both sides and you stop wasting your energy to repair things that could never be resolved. You accept the differences and take the challenges.

7.engagement

There is great love and trust in this phase. They both are bound and at the same time pay attention to the needs of the other. You see a future for you both, but less unclear, fluffy as at the beginning, only with a more mature look. Even if things have appear stable so far, that does not mean that you have to give up to the needs of the other. You can still surprise each other and even a small behavior change can be welcomed if possible.

8.Joint creation

You both are a team now. They love themselves, appreciate each other and trust each other. They have decided to live a common life and even start their own family. No matter how important your plans are, however, try not to lose each other. Finding time to enjoy the pleasure, to be in society of the other, and appreciate the shared time without a large plan.

What do you think? Do you have something to add to this list? How are your experiences in this regard?