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We were all there before. It all starts with a slight itching, the tingling that prefabs an erection or, much worse - the feeling of total terror that accompaniesunderwear tangle. Whatever the question, you are suddenly overwhelmed by discomfort and the burning desire to reorganize your bullets. The only problem? You are in public. And God knows that you do not want to get you cradling one of your business with foreigners.

But there is surely a surreptitious solution for this problem too common, right? Fortunately, we are happy to report, there are. We took this question to the highest power in the world of label: theEmily Post Institute. According to the instituteDaniel Post Senning, co-host of the "Brilliant label"Podcast is an easy process to master, in five stages. Here's what you do. And for larger tips on how to behave in public, learnThe 40 words and expressions no man over 40 should never say,already.

Step First: Keep the visual contact with the person you're talking about.

Yes, you read that right. "You do not need to look at what you do," explains Post Senning. "Just keeping your attention to what you do, the probability that someone will see diminished. We are following everyone's attention depending on where we are looking for."

So, of course, if you find it too embarrassing to look at someone's eyes while your hand is around your indem, it's probably, then, by all means, look at something else: the game , the view, a cool room ofmural. (Not A bandwidth, however, for reasons why we should not have to explain.) "Think of yourself like a magician, keeping the attention of the hearing elsewhere," says Post Senning. Just, whatever you Do not fall to the eyes; do it and you pull yourself in the foot.

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Second step: Use your hand through the pocket.

The most effective surreptitice method would be to stick your hand in your pocket and reorganize this direction. If it's a itchy, try doing the job in three scratches and keeping the subtle movements, not vigorous. This method is brief and quite harmless enough to cross a fidget; All that is also suspicious.

A tip: if possible, provides an element of your pocket. You have toCheck a text, or caught a mint. Or maybe you come fromhave To see this picture of your family that is hidden in your wallet. These are all viable distractions. Under no circumstances will you paste your hand in your pants through the belt. "You do not expose yourself, but you never want to give the impression that you could be," explains Post Senning. "If possible, [you should] turn away. And go quickly." (Duh.)

Third step: Do not lift and do not move away at all.

The instinct of many men is not to use his hands at all, to catch up or move their legs, a kind of "pot dance" of an adult man ". Talk to draw attention to yourself ... "It will make other uncomfortable if what you do is indiscreet," says Post Senning. "That's what the right label is: trying to make people around you feel comfortable."Leave the stretching for the gym.

Fourth step: act quickly.

"You're not here to deliver me," says Post Senning. So act quickly. As if you are caught with your zipper, the closing experts at the closing of the UN and label tell you to touch it quickly, immediately, where you are - do not find yourself to adjust your business. Do not pull your agony; Take this quickly and efficiently.

Step Five: And of course, being attentive.

"The good social grills are to be willing to bear and tolerate a little discomfort for others," said Post Senning. "[Make] a cost-benefit analysis." In other words, you do not have to scratch each itch. In short, a good supervisual rule to follow - for that and for all things, it's really: "Ask yourself", if mymother were here, how was I going to handle that? And proceed as a result, "says Post Senning. If it's something youneed do, do it. Otherwise, maybe reconsider.

Of course, there is also a more inviolable cardinal rule: if there are children around all At all - Find a bathroom.

But you knew that already, right?

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