24 things that men will never understand about women
Sometimes guys, it's better not to ask questions.
One of the mature points of reference realizes that you do not know everything. Not that you have not studied enough or paid a sufficient attention, but there are limits to what anyone is able to know. Take men and women, for example. A man may like to think that heunderstandWomen and to a certain extent, maybe he does. But his knowledge is over. There is only so much that a human male is able to understand about a woman's complex internal logic. He can pretend to know exactly why women behave as they do, but he has just joked. A man who says he "receives" women is like a guy in a kayak making sure he can paddle around a tsunami.
We consulted a panel of more than a dozen women, who shared with us 40 things they believe men do not understand women. Although the effort can be appreciated, it is normal to admit that you are confused. He arrives at all. (Seriously,all of us.)
1 They can complain about their friends, but you can not.
You may think that you are favorable, but it goes through a line. When she gets angry at her friends and complains about them in front of you, it's not an invitation to join. Your job is simply to listen and support. At the moment when you agree too vehemently that his friends are wrong, she will take it as a personal attack. (Idem for mothers. Never, never,alreadycriticize mom, even if they started it.)
2 They do not always try to your advice.
Guys have a natural instinct to want fixed things. So when women share their problems, we are inclined to want to do it better, or at least brainstorming solutions. But more often than not, women are only looking for a friendly ear. They are perfectly capable of solving the problems themselves; They just need to be heard and know that you are on their side.
3 Cheese is a perfectly acceptable meal.
If they invite a few friends for a party meal, and they are all by noticing cheese as aperitif before the meal, and they are never there to eat "dinner" dinner, it's ok. This account like dinner. In fact, he is not even a disappointing dinner! It's a meal victory! Even with chocolate, passing. If you start nibbling on the chocolate and you realize that you are full, while dinner was. You had the chocolate for dinner. Make with. You are winning to life!
4 Handbags are not interchangeable.
The differences between a bag, a bag, a bracelet, a clutch and a shoulder strap are enormous. The most important rule is,function follows the shape. (If you scratch his head right now, it's correct. You do not need to understand.)
5 Every woman wants to be a mom.
This is not a biological imperative for everyone, and you must agree with that. Some women do not want children. Or maybe they prefer the dog company. The point is: its ovaries are its business.
6 Pillows set the decor.
Yes,Women decorate their homes With an incredibly high pillow relationship, and no, it's not negotiable. Each sofa will have at least some cushions, and the bed is not complete unless it has a mountain of pillows that seems, at least to men, a little excessive. Do not question the logic of all these pillows. They are not going anywhere.
7 Arms can cost more men's shoes.
A good bra is essential to a happy woman, and that happiness can come with a very heavy price tag. And why not, really? In a way, a bra is the most important of their wardrobe. If it or injured weird towers, or makes them feel unattractive, nothing else they wear will make a difference. Every sou a woman goes on the most expensive bra they own is well spent money.
8 A commercial trip does not necessarily mean buying things.
For many women,The act of shoppingGoing to a shop, try clothes, and catch up with friends, is more about the social aspect or the care of the trip it is really about buying things. Although he can frustrate some people to go home after a day at the shopping center with nothing new to show for her, for many women, the experience itself is worth it.
9 Your fries are also his fries.
Believe it or not, they are not trying to get bored. As long as we live in a world where food and guilt are not something that women have to face with anytime, where they are not constantly wondering, "Am I eat too much? Everyone is at the table to judge me? Am I thin enough "- you can agree with having some less fried potatoes.
10 The text of the group's rules.
Ormanythreads of a group text. All important issues are discussed in this dynamic group and conversations can walk for days or even weeks. Do not question a woman on whether a group text has monitored its usefulness. It can play as an improvisation of jazz, zigzafurging between random subjects, none of which can be completely solved or responded.
11 The difference between its handbag and a medicine cabinet is negligible.
When a manneeds an analgesic, He must either find the nearest pharmacy or the return home. But a woman will always have at least one bottle of aspirin (or something similar) on her, as well as an assortment of other medical needs. Tamper tampons, a woman is so prepared at any medical emergency that she would not be surprising if she had a roller of gauze somewhere at the bottom of her handbag.
12 If the shampoo costs a lot, that's what the shampoo costs.
They are not opposed to budget shopping. They like to look a lot or find something to a steep discount. But not shampoo. The shampoo that works for them is the shampoo that works for them and if the price makes your drop from the jaw and go, "you haveeuFor pleasant with this, "so then be it. They refuse to buy a shampoo from anywhere that also sells from Bologna or seasonal decoration.
13 Clothes can be as sentimental as family photos.
If you have already wondered why it does not get rid of this ultra-year hot pink zip dress, you have never seen it, you have never seen it, neither to the way null stain is still occupying From space in his drawer-remember: are not only clothes are memories. While, to some men, dress for an opportunity means renting or buying a black suit that you could not choose a range, its clothes are ball nights reminders, graduation ceremonies and traveling traveling of life that she is not ready to forget.
14 Decorative towels are not made for you.
It's just there in the name:decorativetowels. They are for decoration, to be admired from afar and, in rare cases, used by visitors. Touching these towels with your grubic hands is as bad as to reach a window curtain to wipe the food from your mouth.
15 All jeans are not created equal.
Each style or mark of John has its own particular sensation, a touch and an opportunity. There are clubbing jeans and there is a football jeans. There are winter jeans and summer jeans. It's good if you just have several pairs of the same generic jeans, but do not shake the disapprover. It's not his fault that you do not see the unique personality in each pair of jeans.
16 There are more creams that you could not possibly imagine.
A woman needs a daytime face creamandA night face cream. These are different things. In addition, the cream face should never be used on the body. There are different bodily lotions for different seasons. If you need their lotion, do not just take the first bottle you find and eat it on any part of the body. Each cream has a specific purpose and use them in the wrong way will make you look at you as you have just poured bleach on your coffee.
17 They do not want you to seeThe Gray AnatomyWhereIt's uswith them.
Unless you are there, that is to say. If your idea of Great TV has a long, ugly and cathartic cry, then you are invited to join. But if these things make you feel uncomfortable, it's probably for the better if you are sitting on it. As a woman told us: "We must all walk alone the path of McDeamy's death."
18 Jeggings are not leggings.
There are distinct and important differences between jeggings, leggings, soft pants, yoga pants, pajamas, tights and sweats. Women need all women and they need them in black.
19 Eye makeup in a moving vehicle is a skill.
Is it dangerous? Yes, probably. But it is a talent that has been transmitted from generation to generation. Most women do it since they learned for the first time to the bus until college. If you can apply Mascara on a bumpy asphalt road without stabing yourself in the eyes, you are officially a woman.
20 Romantic gestures are a big problem.
It is not that women do not like casual dates and evenings as much as the next person, but there is always a strange desire to be the subject of a totally excessive affection of someone. Even in the most gradual households, women can not escape the messages that were fed them by princess films and Rom-coms, which means that even if anyone sings "can not leave my eyes From you ", in a crowded restaurant would be embarrassed being not an end, there is some of them eager to see what it is like, anyway.
21 Sports are just as important as the Oscars ceremony.
She is not a sports novice. Women like baseball and football and hockey with the same intensity and dedication you make. But they also have a place in their heart for non-sports related passions, such as price discounts. They care about two things too, and just as much and acclaiming the hoots. And in many cases they have the same questions. Whether football or red carpet, women want to know, "Why do they wear that"
22 The packaging is a religion.
Know how to choose the right suitcase (or suitcases) to accommodate the perfect number of clothes and accessories are part of the pleasure of traveling. Are they overpack? So can you equip changes really necessary for a weekend? Probably not. But that's not the point. They did everythingadjust! Please simply wear the multiple bags without comment.
23 If it sounds good, comfort can take a rear seat.
This is valid for all the choices of wardrobe, but especially the heels.
24 No display of photos on social media without green light.
You can not just take a picture of a woman, then publish it on a social media site like Facebook or Instagram without first give it the opportunity to examine the image and, if necessary, its veto. However, it is not only that it is afraid that his eyes are half closed or looks like she had too many mimosas on the cink. In addition to the insurmountable pressure polished appearance at any time, share this photo of her that you find cute or sexy can also mean that she gets a lot of unwanted comments from people whose opinions about her appearance, she does not give a huage about hearing.