15 lies we say to our ex-wives
Even amicable exès tell us fibers from time to time.
Healthy relationships Are all about honesty and trust. Without these two things, even the most passionate partners are required to finally derive drifting. But when they do, are these two qualities of the window? What we mean is that once your partner becomes your ex, is it going to lie from them from time to time? Whether you find some morally acceptable fibers or not are personal, but the fact is that there are few people who do not lie to their exès from time to time. What about what, ask yourself? Continue reading to discover some of the most common lies that people tell their ex-spouses.
1 "No, there is no one else."
Although you think this lie protects your ex-spouse of more pain, it will only hurt you later when they inevitably discover the truth. If the reality is that the cause of your separation was someone else, it is better to let your partner know than having them to discover viasocial media Or a third party ruining effectively whatever the relationship between the two of you remains.
2 "I never thought of other people when we were together."
Even in the happiest relationships, it's natural only for people to fantasize on celebrities,coworkers, or cute strangers of the bar. But is this something that your ex-spouse must know in the middle of your divorce? Probably not. If you want to finish things on terms amicably, this fiber is probably for the better.
3 "No, I do not see anyone again."
If you and your spouse was part of good terms, so the last thing you want to do is upset them with the news thatYou dating again. When things become serious, you will inform them of your new relationship - but until then, there is no reason for you to disclose private information about your personal life to your ex-spouse.
4 "I'm really happy that you're fine!"
What are you supposed to say? That you want your ex to be likesolitary And miserable as you sometimes feel? It is a losing losing situation, honestly.
5 "I'm fine."
When your ex request how you do, you pretend a smile and inform them that things are "good", because 1. it's not their business and you will only feel worse to know that your ex knows May your ex always have a check on your emotions. Watch your old spouse go to someone else while you replay memories of good times in your head, you probably have something that "good". But that's the kind of information you save for your friends and yourtherapist.
6 "I always want to be friends."
The remaining friends with an ex-wife are difficult, especially if you always wear feelings for them and they moved, or vice versa. However, it is sometimes easier to go with all your ex-spouse suggests - especially if there are children involved. Of course, you can always make a different decision from the line.
7 "I never really liked you."
All separations are not civilized. Rather,divorces Can become nasty - and when they do, it is not uncommon for people lying to their ex-spouses that they never loved them in the first place. It's a weak shot that cuts the depth - and it is usually just a defense mechanism - but it's a common lie nevertheless.
8 "I will never have to love someone as much as I loved you."
On the other hand, it could be something you tell your ex just to appease them. Heck, in the moment, maybe you might have had the impression that you wanted to say that! However, a 2014 report of thePEW Research Center found that 67% of people aged 55 to 64 were remarried, just say that you are quite likely to fall in love after being divorced.
9 "Nobody will never love you like I love you."
Although this is more than one manipulation than a lie, it is nevertheless something that expes are both false and supposed to cause pain. The fact is that chances are that someonewillI love you (and someone will probably like it too). Yes, it could be different, but that does not necessarily mean worse.
10 "Of course, I put the kids in bed before 9 o'clock."
When a divorce involves children, it often becomes the case that each parent develops their ownparent style. And if you are the most relaxed parent, then you know it's sometimes better to fiber every time your ex calls if the kids were in bed at a reasonable time or how much the television watched. What they do not know will do not hurt them!
11 "No, it does not bother me to pick up the kids next weekend."
Do youwant toreorganize your weekend all your ex can go on alast minute getaway with their new partner? Of course not. But you say yes anyway, because children are as much as possible, and you will inevitably need your ex to return the favor.
12 "Do not worry, my girlfriend / boyfriend was not finished when the kids were here."
With your schedule as busy as it was the case, you hardly have time to balance the time with children and time with your new beautiful, and so it's logical to go out with everyone With everyone at the same time. Of course, you will not say willingly your ex that (and you will hope that children do not do it either).
13 "I only pretended to love this thing you love."
When the breaks begin to get ugly, former wives say everything that might simply think of getting under the skin of their ex. In the heat of the moment, you could even claim that you have secretly hated theTV show Both of you were once bound on-if only to make them feel that all your relationship was a lie. Ouch.
14 "Yes, that's what you're going out of my friends now."
More than 7 billion people in the world and you come fromhad Start from dating one of my friends? No, really, it's ok.
15 "It's not you it's me."
Sorry, but it's probably you. And if you are on the fence on the split with your spouse, make sure to checkThe 15 worst reasons to delay a break.
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