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We all remember the emblematic scene ofWhen Harry meets SallywhenMeg RyanAs Sally explains to Harry (Crystal Billy) how oftenWomen pretend. "Most women at some point or another have simulated," she says. "All men are sure that it has never happened to them and all women at one point or others have done so that you do the calculation." (The very convincing performance of Cue Ryan on a sandwich in Turkey and the "I will have what she has" the classical quote that follows.) Of course, we know that people pretend from time to time, but to How often does your partner put in place a show? According to a September survey by ONEPOLL in collaboration with the female technology companyLora di Carlo, the sad truth is sexually activeThe Americans arepretense 17% of the time. Read more and for people who get it the most, discover whyMen with these 3 personality traits have the most sex.

The investigation revealed that, on average,people pretend About four times a month. There is a slight disparity in terms of sex, men reporting that they simulate 16% of the time and women who report their simulation of 18% of the time, but it is always close enough. When everything is said and done, women simulate an average of 39 orgasms a year, according to the investigation.

"Fade of orgasms is a trial of many women to treat. It's almost universal," saysCertified sex coach, sexologist and authorGig. "Once you started to pretend, it's hard to stop. The depressing reality is that sex is not taught equally."

She explains that, historically, the pleasure is based on cuisine heterosexual men, while "the female pleasure is considered a" bonus "but which is definitely not a requirement."

What is interesting is that the OnePoll's investigation revealed that men and women seem to be unconscious of the false performance of their partner, as well as the Sally observed on the back screen in 1989. According to The research, 38% of men think that their partners never simulate them with them and 56% of women think the same thing.

The survey also found that 44% of participants admit that they do not know enough about the needs of their partner to give them an orgasm, which contributes to the fact that 40% of respondents reported to havenever experienced a real orgasm.

But, according to Engle, "when you false orgasms, you have finished playing [yourself] at the end because you end up in a false orgasm loop. Your partner is in the dark - they think they do All good things due to simulation. "

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"My customers admit to pretending orgasms for a range of reasons. Some do it to please their partners and others to simulate it to transform them," saysJess O'Reilly, Phd, astroglideresident sexologist. "Others claim that they claim that the peak of sex and do, while many women do it to caress the ego of their partner. Some even say they false orgasms to show their love . "

According to ENGLISE and O'Reilly, communication is the key to completion. The only way to ensure your needs and that your needs of your partner are satisfied is to talk about them.

"Speak, talk, talk. So speaks a little more," suggests O'Reilly. "Communication is at the heart of agreat sex life and although sometimes a bit well-intentioned ego-caressant can have its place, the current deception will not produce positive results and can not be detrimental not only to your sex life, but also to your relationship of sex, but also to your relationship as a whole. For tips on how to communicate effectively with your partner in this vulnerable situation, checkThe worst thing you can tell someone in bed.