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Despite one of the world's most famous celebrities,Beyonceis notorious to rarely give interviews. Maybe that's why his fans of Diehard could hardly contain themselves whenVogue Posted an intimate article That Queen Bey herself wrote for their September issue. In the revealing piece, the 36-year-old pop star has opened its doors to learn to love one's body as a result of a difficult pregnancy:

After the birth of my first child [Blue Ivy Carter], I thought the company said about the fight against my body. I got pressure on myself to lose all the weight of the baby in three months and I scheduled a little tour to make sure I would do it ... After the twins, I approached things very differently . I made 218 pounds the dayI gave birth to Rumi and sir. I was swollen from the toxemia and I had been on rest for more than a month. My health health and my babies were in danger, so I had an emergency section. We spent several weeks in the Nicu ... After section C, my heart felt different. It was a major surgery. Some of your organs are temporarily moved and in rare cases, temporarily removed during delivery. I'm not sure everyone understands that. I needed time to heal, get back. During my recovery, I gave myself love and personal care, and I kissed being curved. I accepted what my body wanted to be.

As she went temporarily vegetation and swornic sugar, coffee and alcohol to come back in shape, she was also patient with herself and appreciated her curves. To date, she swears she has a "mom pocket" that she is not rushed to get rid of. It's the kind of self-love and acceptance that she wants to convey to her three children.

Oh, and speaking of parenting, Queen Bey also dropped several large parenting secrets. So read it, because we have compiled them all here. And for more celebrity orientations on parenthood, checkJames Marsden's advice to live your best life.

"I come from a line of broken masculine relations, abuse of power and mistrust," she wrote. "Only when I saw that was clearly able to resolve these conflicts in my own relationship." To dig at the bottom of his own past, she studied her ancestors and discovered that she comes from a slave owner fallen in love with the slave and married. The revelation took time to treat but, once she did, she realized that it was "why God blessed me with my twins. The energy of men and women was capable of Coexist and grow in my blood for the first time. " She now believes that after making peace with her ancestral past, she will be able to "break the generational curses of my family [then] that my children will have fewer complicated lives."

Beyoncé spends a lot of the interview with the way it is important to open the door for previously marginalized groups. As such, sheVogue The cover was the first time by an African American photographer,Tyler Mitchell. His focus on diversity is not only for the benefit of other African Americans, but also for his children.

"My mother taught me the importance not only to be seen but to see me," she wrote. "As a mother of two girls, it's important for me to see themselves too - in books, movies and tracks. It's important for me that they consider themselves CEOs, like bosses and They know they can write the script for their own life - that they can talk about their minds and they have no ceiling. "

Beyoncé also poetically writes the importance of freedom, because it is not unhappy unless it is free and constant "improve, evolve, advance, inspiring, teaching and learning." It's a freedom that she wants to go to her children.

"They do not have to be a certain type or register in a specific category. They must not necessarily be politically correct, as long as they are authentic, respectful, compassionate and empathic. They can explore any religion, fall in love with a race and love that want to love. "

In a particularly beautiful passage, Beyoncé says that it has "experienced betrayals and sorrows in many forms" and that it had "disappointments in business partnerships as well as business partnerships, which left it" feel neglected, lost and vulnerable. "But she learned to" laugh and cry and grow "through all this, so now she feels" so much more beautiful, so more sexy, so much more interesting "and" so much more powerful "than ever. She wants that His children recognize this power in themselves.

"I hope to teach my son not to be a victim of what the Internet says it should be or how it should love. I want to create better representations for him, so it is allowed to reach his full potential of Man and to teach him that the true magic he possesses in the world is the power to affirm his own existence. "

In today's society, it is essential to focus on the fact that we must delete the prejudicial notion that men have to plug their feelings andRaising men who are conscientious, expressive and emotionally conscious. Beyoncé is fully on board with that.

"I want [my son] to know that he can be strong and brave, but that he can also be sensitive and kind. I want my son to have a high emotion qi where he is free to be neat, Truthful and honest. That's all a woman wants in a man, and yet we do not teach our boys. "

For more personal testimonials of men who are not afraid to show their vulnerable side, checkHow Dwayne Johnson overcame his disabling depression.

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