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Everyone knows that there isMen The idiots are idiots like the Himym Barney Stinson who give women compliments the compliments with the explicit intent to move away from their self-esteem to facilitate the possibility of putting them to bed. You are not one of them. But maybe you are the kind of man who wants to give a woman a compliment, but feared that she will be offended and is not really sure what is or is not appropriate to say more. Or maybe you want to be better to communicate with women but do not know how. Or maybe you grew up in a chauvinist culture that systematically spawn women and that you heard men say all things about this list and never thought about what their implications or how a woman could deduce them.

We are not here to puncture your fingers or capture. If you read this article, it means you want to be better, which is great. Here is a list of things that women - especially those that would probably be identified as feminists - are sick and tired of the hearing. And if you want more tips on how to be a better man in today's society, here's why you shouldbe more like David Schwimmer.

It sounds so flattering outside, but it's really just a way of saying, "Hey, most girls are lame and you're not. Good for you!" Most women do not like to put other women. A nice touch about it would be to say, "You're not like someone I've ever met before."

Margaret Thatcher once said, "The power is like being a lady ... if you have to tell people you are, you do not do it." It's the same rule with male feminists. Women are aware that guys who run around pink hats and rising to be a male feminist are, more often, trying to use Gloria Steinhem to get ascended. Real male feminists do not need to constantly say to the people they are feminist. It's just obvious because they, you know, respect women and things (which, for the record, Ryan Gosling makes it clear).

Women are not here to stimulate your ego or make your day and if you want me to smile, do something funny.

Once again, it's something that seems very flattering but is in fact a kind of sexist (unless the woman in question does not specifically pose that). It's good to say, "You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" - something - but bit to a woman against her friends, as if it were a beauty contest is not a good way to go. As a general rule, compliment a woman by falling from other women is always a bad choice.

I first heard that of a man I met for 6 months when I accepted to Oxford and that it wears. I have heard it several times since. It's like you did not think I was intelligent to start, so what are we doing here? Am I supposed to be flattered as you are interested only by me for my looks? Do you usually give women that you do not think you have a substance at all?

I get a lot when I complain to the men of the quantity I hate shopping, what I do, because it's expensive and exhausting andunless you have the body of Emily RatajkowskiIt's also often demoralizing. Many women do not like purchases. You should not assume that all women are biologically addicted to shoes. Conversely, if a woman likes to go shopping, there is no need to act as if it's been a half because it's not aserious Hobby, like watching adult men tackle a bullet.

In the fields dominated by men, it is common that the man to say something like that, and at first glance, he seems innocent and flattering. But what you really forget is that there is no reason to have listened to him other than his appearance.

It is somehow understanding here that it is an extremely sexist thing to say in professional environments, but, for some reason, many women I know in sports professions dominated by men (such as skiing or skiing. Boxing) always have a plot. Clearly, it's offensive.

Your girlfriend is not crazy. You say that because you try to create a small secret link between us in which you act as suddenly, it is us (the normal) against it (the madman), while trying to inert the idea of ​​the American hanging up. You do not deceive anyone. Women who respect other women do not want to hear about how your girlfriend is "crazy", because she is pretty justified to be jealous and b) we would do the same thing if we were in her shoes.

Translation: I cheat a lot, I'm lying on this, and when a woman gets to me and confronts me about it, I act as she is just being paranoid.

Please, do not tell me how I feel, never. Please, do not assume that if I tell you that I'm not interested, even if we are friends, which means that I am "high" or that I am "nevertheless" or that the "Papa problems" "(The latter still say with a smiling smile and a glow in their eye, as they are super enthusiastic about the prospect of going out with a woman who has a bad relationship with his father, because it means that it will be Probably wild in the bag). Please assume that I know how I feel better than you and do not attend me by acting as you know better. And please, simply take what I say to facial value instead of engaging in a psychobouge to try to do what you want.

Depending on the culture you grew up, even a seemingly"wake up" Guy can give the impression that it is incredibly grime or unattractive for women to smoke, drink or curse (but no men, obviously). It is important that both sexes are polite and courteous, but the UN is not on women to defend the moral fabric of society. It's not our job and if it's never then we resigned!

Whenever you use the word "girl" as synonymous with "lame", you do not make any favors.

All that implies that women who have sex are something other than normal will generally not fall.

This is another classic remark that seems to be a compliment but is actually wrong on so many levels. First of all,most women go to gym because they want to be healthy, or because they like the rush to the endorphin that comes with exercise, or both. It has nothing to do with an attractive rump. Please, do not assume all that women do in life stem from an effort to make you find sexually attractive.

This is one of those sentences that men are wrong gradually because it seems to mean that they advocate that women do not die themselves. But the reality is that men never say that when a woman is overweight. It is only pronounced for girls who match the ferey "cool girl" who seem to be able to rely on the mouth in Buffalo wings and to easily stay a size 2 (PS: these girls work very hard to maintain effortlessly hot Persona )

That's why it's boring when I order a salad and a man says, "Oh, go, get a hamburger. Live a little." I understand it tries to be nice but it really hurts my feelings because I would have liked to have the kind of metabolism that allowed me to eat junk food and maintain a healthy weight, but I do not do it not. I work very hard to follow a good physical and I do not appreciate a man making me feel that it is lame that I was not biologically blessed with a superhuman digestive system.

Really, you buy in the extremely sexist idea that if a woman is single, it's because no man wants. If I'm so beautiful / intelligent / incredible, make the logical hypothesis that I am single because I'm difficult because I can afford to be. Because I have choices. Because it's 2017, baby!

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