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Sexting. Everyone does it - and not just the youngest generations practically born with a mobile phone by hand. Ato study found that 88% of participants (18 to 82 years old) were previously considered, the majority of them had done it over the past year.

It's easy to understand why. Sexting can really spice up things for long-standing couples, provide a way to connect to couples in long distance relationships and add a little pleasure to virtually any partnership.

Now, if you are already a professional to that, congratulations to you, but for those who need a primer on snapshots and duty out of the phone when reading digital age. And for more good dating datsings and not to do, here is the11 Meeting application message errors.

"If you are in a relationship and you're looking to try something new, make sure the other person is open," suggestsSTEF WOODS, a sex educator and a full-time faculty member of the American University. After all, if a person is completely removed from guard or trying to introduce the conversation to an inappropriate time, your message may have the opposite of its effect. "Sexting should be a bidirectional conversation, so you want to make sure that the person on the other end of the text has time and the interest of enjoying and answering." Do not really feel it anyway? You should feel relieved thatThere are so many reasons to enjoy being single in your forties.

And with aanybody You are comfortable with. "It's much easier to say something sexy to your 20-year-old wife or the man you've seen for a moment that from a complete stranger," saysWayne Rodgers, the author and the relational expert. In terms ofWhat To say, go with what you know. "If you have a directory of Dirty Talk already built in the relationship with sexual moments, stick with what you know before trying something more daring." Weather in Brisker means more people seek to get comfortable with someone else. See if you can not capitalize on the17 reasons why cold weather marks the best time to fall in love.

"One of the biggest mistakes of people (especially individuals over 40 years old), while the sexting uses the language they do not identify," NotesBritanny Burr, sexual expert and relationship and editor writerN sex sex psych. "If something feels weird when we write it, it will also feel strange when it is read. Do not force that! Words wear a lot of weight, and if they are not suitable, do not feel good, nor Do not sound like you, they can not land in the way you hope. "

"Recognize that what constitutes the sexage or sexually explicit varies from the person to the person," says Woods. In fact, something that is notso The graph can have a greater impact. "A simple text you want you're going next to your lover is not particularly racy, but can be the perfect pickup in the middle of a long day of work."

The experts say it's really time for the misconception that the sextage is only for younger people to be placed at rest. "It's not something that only teenagers or twenty are doing," saysMasini of Aprilexpert and author of the relationship and label. "Relationships need pick-me-ups. If you do not sex, consider it seriously. It's great for people with more than 40 people who want to add a small spice to a long-term relationship or for a More recent relationship where you are dating and having some commitment. "

You do not try to write a short erotic story here, so keep it short and sweet. "Just like SMS is not the best method of broadcasting long grievances, the sextage should be your last resort for long diatribes," says Woods. "Keep your naughty texts short so that your other significant does not lose interest and wants to play along. See your sextles as a preview of what will happen once at home."

After all, internet is forever. "Simply put things," said Burr. "Even if you are sexing with the most respectful individual in the world, there is always a chance that someone else can see your message or your photo, even if by accident." She has a point. "I do not suggest that you censor yourself, make sure you make sure that everything you say, it's a good representation of yourself, and that it does not totally spoil your life if it had to go out."

One of the most essential rules of the sexage? If you do not want others to see what you say (or slammed), take preventive measures. "Remember that the password protects your phone before sending these messages," says Rogers. "You do not want your colleagues where your children accidentally see something they should not."

The autocorcere is probably useful in your daily life, but it can ruin your mojo because it is used to transforming dirty words into "clean". This can lead somereally Strange-poll messages (and insexy). "Be careful that the autocorrect does so that you have not triggered a sex failure killing mood," saysScott Valdez, founder ofVida.

On a similar note, double checkall, but especially the field "to:", before letting the message go in the ether. "If you go to Sext, make sure you do not accidentally send a DIY Boudoir photo to your boss, offices and girl friends," suggests Masini.

True, it could feel less personal if the recipient can not see your face, but think about this way: "In a worst case, the scenario where the image ends on the internet or in the flow of Facebook of someone 'One, you'll be so much more relieved if people can not recognize you immediately, "says Valdez.

"You may find that you like to send naughty texts and continue to do it. Or, you risk feeling uncomfortable and not wanting to redo it," says Woods. It is very good. Just because many people do it, it does not mean you need. "There is no right or wrong, as long as you communicate with your partner and you determine what works for both of you."

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