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"June 8, 2019 was supposed to be the happiest day of my life"CHANDLEY BRELSFORD, 22,wrote on facebook August 31st. "The day I marry my best friend, Soulmate, my person. I wanted to get up giddy and nervous, excited to see the man of my dreams at the end of the aisle ... but nothing about what happened. "

In the emotional position, which has since become viral, Brelford explained that she had called her marriage three weeks before the date and chose to make a solo photo shoot in her wedding dress on her marriage.

"I have already had everything all that everything was planned and my friends and friends had already asked for leave day, so I thought rather than remaining unhappy that day, I would have told it," Bressford saidBetter life.

In his position of Facebook, Brelsford has chronic what finally led her to finish things with the old fiancé after four years together.

"He wanted to know who I had dragged with and where I was at any time," she wrote in the Facebook post. "If I did not answer my phone right away, he would ask me immediately. He would become very upset if I chose to see my family for a night rather than being with him ... I became more and more isolated ... [and I've] lost myself along the way. "

When he proposed, Borsford was delighted that the man she had been infacted since she was a teenager wanted to marry her, but she also felt more and more trapped. "There was nothing more in my own life," she wrote. "If we have fun, it was his terms."

In a telephone interview withBetter lifeBressford said that when she finally called things, she was initially very depressed, but the support of her friends and family members brought her through it.

"So much peoplecalled me to say that they were proud of me, "she said." It was so good to be reaffirmed. "

And when she told the wedding photographerChelsey Burgess she wanted to make the picture of the bridal photo alone, she "Jump right on board. "

Brelsford initially thought of doing a"Trash The Habe" Shoot Photo, a way some women celebrated their independence as a result of a divorce or a break. But, looking through photos of the trend, she felt as if the concept did not really suit the message she was trying to send.

"I did not feel avenge," she said. "In many ways, I felt more powerful than ever."

Thus, the Brelsford has rather offered his own ideas on how to express themselves, including wearing shoes wearing the optimistic message on the soles, "one day, but not today."

And very relative images of its consumption of a nice glass of wine.

Brelsford said she posted photos and story on facebook especially because shewanted to "explain what happened." But then the post started to go viral and, from now on, he has more than 100,000 tastes.

"I was shocked, "she said." But I'm glad it's viral because I had messages from people saying, "I'm about to get married and I can not do it. Your message inspired me.I had a lot of women answers that crossed the same thing. "

Today, Brelsford awaits the future and new adventures. She has a bachelor's degree in kinesiology and hopes to enter graduate studies for physiotherapy.

She also hopes that the photos will continue to remind men and women that "No one should make you feel trapped or unfortunate of yourself, because no one deserves to feel that way. "

As she eloquently wrote in her facebook, "every person deserves a love that puts her soul on fire, as well as resting when tired".

And for another autonomous photo shoot, read the story behind theseViral photos of a husband and a woman's battle with breast cancer.

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