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Lose more capabilities

As his condition aggravated, you would think it would be enough for the poor boy. But then, something even worse happened to the poor boy. Martin then lost his ability to speak! This destiny of innocent boy was certainly condemned and he did not deserve it at all. You could even say that this boy was in a coma of meaning and was nothing more than a vegetable now.

Waiting for his time

To see their little boy, go from a healthy person and active to a still piece of a body would certainly break the heart of any parent. Thus, when Martin's parents, Rodney and Joan Pistorius saw their son revealing in this way, they begged doctors to do what they could to repair him. Their only wish was for their beautiful son to recover his engine functions and his ability to communicate ...

Keep it at home

His parents were so desperate to bring their son to be healthy and again. Imagine having a son that for him to prove to be paralyzed? Yes, even if you would certainly make what you can to repair it, right? The doctors simply advised his parents to keep Martin at home at home until his death. But the only thing was, Martin, did not die ...

The duty of a father

It is as if the son of the Pistorius had been imprisoned in his own body. He did not live but did not die either. It was a good tragic way to spend time here on earth. As Martin was 14 years old, it was clear that he was not going soon. His parents felt helpless, but then promised that they would keep him at ease as possible ...

After every 2 hours

Since the doctors told Martin's parents that they should just keep it at home, they had no choice but to do as they said. So he started as home care visits during the day. Since doctors could not be there all the time, during the night, Martin's father would be responsible. Martin's Dapa wake up every two hours to repair his son to set aside.

Everyday routine

Mom and Martin's dad have tried everything in their power to make it comfortable as possible. Since his parents quickly realized that they were not able to do so alone, they decided to fall in a local care center. His father would rise at 5 o'clock in the morning, became Martin all ready to let him down to go to the health center where experts can better deal with him.

For years

His parents tried to do very hard to do what they could keep him at ease, but he turned out to be a little too much to manage for them. Thus, after Martin has been abandoned in the care center, he would spend eight o'clock there and his father would then look for him again. He would take Martin Home, nourish him then bring him to go to bed. It was the routine they followed for many years ...

Stressed mom

As a mother of a sick boy, Joan Pistorius slowly began to lose his hold. Since his son did not show any sign of progress, she slowly lost her hope. Martin's mother sometimes felt like she was not able to give what her son needed. She felt insufficient and often felt felt like the burden that had fallen on her to take care of her son's needs was unbearable.

His confession

At one of the days when Joan felt really low, she moved closer to her son and escaped aloud, "I hope you die." It was his way of asking God if they would do their favor and take their son of his misery on earth. If you think about it, it could have been better for what the entire family of Martin crossed. She was informed that he was not able to hear anything ...

Wake up slowly

The whole family had to calendar according to the needs of Martin for a long time. But when he had the age of 16, Martin started to find his conscience. At first, he could not hear or divert anyone else around him. He had been living like this for some time. But then, he soon started to divert another next to him, supporting his conscience.

Hear

Even if Martin was not yet able to communicate something else, he had slowly started gaining his senses so that he was aware of most things. Martin had indeed heard all the nasty things that his mother had shouted during his time in distress. He heard all his curses during his time of despair. However, since it could not move at all, it has not been able to react in any way ...

Here but not quite

Even if Martin had spent so much time being unable to hear, feel or say anything, things change slowly. After a while, Martin was able to feel everything, just like a normal person would be capable of. However, there was still a problem, he could still not express his feeling. He was still unable to move his eyes, or shudder a toe, his brain and his body have not always synchronized correctly.

Realization

So what was the worst party for poor Martin? Well, it must certainly be the realization. To learn that he was a boy in a man's body would certainly be a discouraging feeling. He had spent all these years unable to move or feel anything to never have had the chance to grow or progress as a normal human being. You could even say that it has been trapped inside itself.

Trap forever

Since Martin had been paralyzed like this for so long, his progress has not been noticed immediately by his family. His dear family was so used to being absent to him that they ignored it. They had been convinced that there was no way for Martin to recover from his condition. So, even if Martin advises you that he had progressed, they would still not see the signs he wore.

A condemned life

Martin soon understood that his destiny was condemned. He realized that he was going to be trapped in his mind, alone and solitary for all his life. The only company would have ever had one's own thoughts. His life was fixed to be sentenced from the moment he became ill. He was never going to have the chance to meet friends, find love and make a family of himself. He would have a chance to work in electronics ...

Ignore

So what was a guy? Here he was unable to do what he wanted, not able to move an arm or even lift up to blink his eyelids. There remained only one thing for Martin Pistorius to do. His only option was to leave his thoughts behind. He had to turn his head in white to keep himself bad enough about his life condition. Martin soon started being engendered.

Not all under control

As he felt helpless and so alone, there was only one solution that he could come in his mind. If he just kept his mind empty, so so as to become less disappointed with the way he was. He let himself dissolve in darkness and disappear. Unfortunately, there were a lot of things that bad Martin could not control, even if he did his best to keep the way he treated.

"I love you…"

To see a boy who can not speak or move from having left an impression on everyone around Martin. The whole world has already had an impression of Martin as a vegetable, so what did they do? Well, they thought since he can not react, they could get out with everything they wanted to do. They would place it right in front of a television and left it unattended for hours.

Sofa potato

Even though Martin's mother and father had a lot of faith in the care center, they placed it, he would be more ugly than we could imagine. The staff working there at the special care center would often leave him for hours right in front of television. They would do it sitting there and constantly look at shows for children such asBarney and Friends. Cruelty was going to grow up ...

A Cruel Care Center

While Martin's parents thought they did a favor, it turned out that Martin was filled with a fear to go to the care center every day. It was to love what they had extended at all. In fact, every day, Martin would have his hair drawn and they would do with his eyes water. In addition, they would crush the metal spoon against his teeth and feed him every day. Some cursed and cry excessively.

Even more

It was not everything. There were other tortuous things that care center employees would often make poor boy. They even feed him hot tea or soup if never martin fell ill or would simply slap him for pleasure. As they knew very well that he could not be able to fight, Martin was benefited by the staff.

Unforgivable?

One of the worst things to come to the helpless boy was the fact that he had been sexually abused. There was a woman would enter her room just for Straddle Martin to simulate sex with him. She even touched her private parts and caressed her well that this guy can not represent or answer. He wanted he could run away and inform someone of all these ...

His only prayer

Martin silently suffered from all these physical and mental violations to where he was supposed to have better care than at home. Since he could not express anything, in his head, he wanted to have a way to signal what they were doing for him, to stop them. Martin has not abandoned and braved every day hoping that one day it would be free of all that.

A harassing thought

Even if he wanted to be away from all the things that happened to him, Martin was only the man that many things were affected. He concentrated hard on things that were not positive. All the negative points directed towards him were a toll on him mentally. It was indeed a very difficult challenge to put things like his fiercely screaming mother, "I hope you die."

Time to

Even though he passed a lot in the center, nothing could top be how pathetic he felt when his mother spoke of these words. He was now constantly in a mental battle to try to overcome all these hideous things that arrived at him. He had always wondered what pushed his mother to say such a vile word at all. It was high time that he tried to understand the level of frustration and sorrow that his parents face.

Recharged mind

After a while, Martin started being able to re-engage with his thoughts. He had tried very hard to keep them away and not getting in touch with his mind as he thought it did not make sense to do it. Martin was certain that for him to heal completely and fight against depression and loneliness he suffered, he had to have a needle more and more.

A miracle?

After being focused on himself, he started slowly feeling better. He was bound to his mind and he learned that he felt better. The miracles began to happen because not only his mind even his body improved. It was clear that his neurons were beginning to come back. Slowly but surely, Martin sinks. He started with self-awareness and soon the movement has come to be.

Small movements

And very soon, Martin was able to make small movements. With a determination and pure patience, he finally could move his body, little by little. But as his parents and his caregivers were so used to see him motionless, they did not notice that he was making light moves by himself. They would look at these small movements as simple tremors in his body.

Get noticed

It continued for a moment and even if Martin made a lot of progress, there were so many things that he needed to do to get noticed. After staying like this for a while, a day, Virna van der Walt, who works as aromatherapist, began to read. As soon as he saw that Martin would react to specific statements or questions, he knew that the boy would improve slowly.

Silver lining

The living majority of his paralyzed life and in the mercy of others had certainly had been a frightful way to live life. But finally, at the age of 25, Martin Pistorius was able to find his full consciousness and some very important parts of his mobility. He had persisted and was now better than ever before. He could even be forgiven his parents to say what they did to him ...

Changes of life

So how did Martin have forgiven his parents, especially his mother who really wished to die? Well, after a moment, he realized that sometimes the tension and frustration became unbearable. It was not the only thing that had changed in Martin's life. After a short moment, Martin met with his wife Joanne who works as a social worker, on the Internet. And by 2009, he asked his hand in the marriage.

Life improves

Martin and Joanne after married decided to settle in Harlow. After having been gathered online, they knew they were definitely served for each other. Even if things are better, there are so many things that act as obstacles for Martin. He must speak with a vocal synthesizer, but overall, the lessons he had learned from being trapped inside his own body made him strong.

To get a diploma

There was so much to learn by Martin after finding his senses. He had come as far so that he was not about to stop there. After recovering his conscience, he continued to take up all his essentials like mathematics, the alphabet, but he was very fast with that. To say that Martin has learned that all the bases would quickly be a euphemism because he even had a degree.

Focus and driving

Martin had his next goal set and it was to learn to drive. The only thing he needed was to get a suitable car and an instructor. He had mastered the control of his electric wheelchair and also managed to succeed in the test of the theory in driving the conduct. He soon became a qualified driver and turned out once again that anyone could do everything they put their minds to ...