Strange behavior of the newborn morbé Mother, 40 years later, she finds the reason behind her
A baby is supposed to lighten the life of a couple. A baby fills the dream of a proud parents' transformation couple. Two individuals are happy with each
A baby is supposed to lighten the life of a couple. A baby accomplishes the dream of a couple to turn to proud parents. Two people are happy with each other, but are happier when they have a family they could call their own. The feelings a parent goes through are difficult to express in words as they are so pure emotions and happy that they could not be felt. The parents of children know what it is to feel the joy of parenthood.
When everything seems to be beautiful on the birth of a baby, there was a dark side that a family of Moldova had to face after their daughter was born. The way the newborn would behave disturbed the couple. And when years later, a neighbor enters their lives, everything has changed forever. The baby, the parents, their family everything eventually being in a quagmire.
Jump
We often define "love at first sight" as an event that is true simply because from the day a baby is born, he / she falls in love with their mother. There is no love like that of a mother's love. His care of disinterested and love to his baby are what makes this link stronger. But when a woman from Moldova delivered her daughter, something seemed out.
An instantaneous connection
Scientifically, a baby and the mother connect to each other in an instant because of the production of various hormones than the liberation of the woman the work of undergo. A hormone called "oxytocin" is the only person responsible for the maternal instinct more and more to a woman during her months of pregnancy. Even newborns feels baby attached to his / his mother because of this particular hormone, the second, he / she takes a step in this world.
her perfume
It is said that a child is able to recognize his / scent of his mother. And not only that, but the mother's voice is also something of a child is able to make a difference of the rest before his birth. For all these nine months when a baby grows up in his / her mother's belly this link develops. But when their daughter is born, she misunderstand themselves who soon turned into a cause of worry for the family.
Heat
In a few seconds after the birth of the baby, she is placed next to her mother, as he can not recognize her through her senses and is able to adapt to the outside world by her heat, love and care. Surprisingly, their daughter would just cry. This leaves the couple of completely confused.
Happy, not happy
He was in March 1978, that Vera Lashtur and her husband Nikolay gave birth to a little princess, a little girl. The couple was ecstatic. Their happiness did not know boundaries. They were already proud parents of a boy and a princess birth, they thought their family was complete. Although everything went in appearance, little vera could feel that something was weird. But what?
Unknown story
When everyone hopes that bringing their home home would be a happy and a magical moment for Vera and Nikolay, he was not very close to him. At the very early stadium itself, Vera felt a strange and a strange gap of his own daughter. She did not know that this initial malaise with her newborn later unpacking a story could never think.
The little
Vera and Nikolay named their daughter Tatyana. When the couple has their daughter at the newborn baby house, they wanted to provide him the best of everything. As she was too young, the only way she communicated was with her expressions and gestures cryed. But, one day, the situation seems to be something different.
perhaps hungry
It was not new for the couple to see the newborn cry, they were already experienced parents. Most often, we saw that babies cried to communicate they are hungry. And when Vera feeds Tatyana she would get all the more grumpy and were fighting.
A hope
Vera often thought that Tatyana was slightly colic, but as she was crying stronger, she would be frightened. Vera and Nikolay hoped that the little girl grows up, her behavior that comes through strange for them would eventually disappear. However, fate had something else for the family.
To get old
Over the years, Tatyana has grown up in a preschooler. However, his behavior was still not normal. The couple could not understand the question. Tatyana would sometimes be very happy with them, then she isolated her. It turns into a person in a bad mood and would often be upset. The questions aggravated when Tatyana became the subject of discussion for the neighbors.
non-lovable
Vera would call back the birth of his son. She remembers the way he would sleep in his arms. In addition, he would represent via actions or would cry that he is hungry but in the case of Tatyana, she would rebel each time Vera tried to feed her. She, being a mother, could easily feel that there was certainly something strange from her little girl.
Rumors around
While Tatyana turned around about 6 years old, the neighbors also started talking about his strange attitude. People would prevent me from this little girl and soon a big rumor. Even Vera's relatives have started talking about it. When Vera learned how chatted people, she could not take it.
Whispering
The neighbors had a reason to talk about Tatyana. The girl would not play with other children of her age and will not be well with her own family. Sometimes people around that she does not even look like her parents. It was quite weird. And then one day Vera came to know one of these whispers.
Bad baby
A beautiful day, Vera was in the Community Park with Tatyana when she heard her neighbors who spent strange looks at her and her daughter. She heard that this seems that Vera had brought home the baby from someone else. Probably she raised a bad baby. People would even say that Tatyana is adopted and the family the cause of everyone. Was it the case?
A better life
Vera could not handle such rumors. She was already disturbed by Tatyana's attitude and behavior and all these rumors made things even more difficult. She did not want such discussions to disturb her daughter and, so she and Nikolay decided to move from Moldova. And when they did it, a truth surfaced.
Leaving Moldova
Vera and Nikolay had brought all the arrangements to go to the United States in early 1999. Only one week before moving on to a new place, a woman from their neighborhood that was even a friend close to the family came to speak with them. She told them that she had information that could be important for the family.
Miserable child
The woman told the couple of the story of another baby who resided in the place of the neighbor of her sister. This baby is born pretty much the same thing as Tatyana and even his condition was miserable. This baby too would cry often. Hearing the similarities with this baby Vera and Nikolay somewhere panicked.
Something shocking
As Vera and Nikolay were disconcerted enough to know the similar situation of another baby, which their neighbor says further, came like a shot. For example, they wanted to ignore a particular fact, but they could not. What she said was something that no one would like to hear.
Look alike
Nikolay later in an interview says that the woman knew them and the other family. He remembers, "She knew us, she knew the other family and she knew that the two children had problems after the hospital. As they grew up, I guess it could say that the other child looked a lot like our family and the child we had looked like their families. "How can children look like this?
Looking for answers
Vera and Nikolay thought it's better to leave Moldova. They left this place and moved to North Carolina, then in Ohio. However, every time they would visit the place again, they would try to locate the other family and see if something from the past could be solved or connected. But nothing like it happened up ...
Let's try
Back in the 90s, it was not so easy to locate people as it is today. Although the couple left their investigation throughout 2017 with the advent of technology, they decided to give it another. We are reminded that their neighboring wife gave them the name of the baby as "Valentina Suman".
Research
In August 2017, they sought the name of Valentina Suman on Facebook and found a match. There was this girl in the thirties who was resident of Moldova. She had dark hair and eyes similar to those of Nikolay. They sent it and told him all the case. They even asked him for his details on birth.
A match
When Valentina provided them details on its date of birth and place of birth and the hospital, Vera and Nikolay were surprised. It was exactly the same date, time and place where Tatyana was born. She even transmitted some of her photos when she was infant and she made the picture much clearer.
It's his mother
Antony, Vera and the son of Nikolay saw these photos and said that she looked a lot like her parents. He was shocked to make this discovery. The resemblance was something that no one could ignore. With this, the family has decided to get a DNA test performed.
The results
In October 2017, the family via a Russian television show got their DNA tests. As the results came, it was clear crystal. The doubt they had in mind with regard to Tatyana and Valentina became sad. Valentina's DNA was a 99.99% match in Vera and Nikolay. Valentina was their daughter.
The meeting
When Valentina met Vera Backstage, she could not control her tears. It was an emotional meeting. They met for the first time by almost 40 years. This did concretely why the two babies would be grumpy all their childhood. Newborns could feel that their respective mothers were not their biological mothers.
Special time
The two families encountered behind the scenes and shared a special moment. They were annoyed and angry at the gaff of the hospital. The little ones have been changed to birth. However, they were happy that they were both raised by fine adoptive parents who had given them the best possible life.
Feelings
Tatyana and Valentina (girl on the far left and the first right girl) shared a deep link. If they were foreigners but that they were raised by the parents of the other, they were no less than sisters. They both shared the same situation. They had a malaise to adapt to their parents and how was this disconnection in childhood.
Knowing them
Since the day, Valentina had learned to know his parents of birth, she made a constant effort to get more and more his parents more and more. She will often go to the United States until she leaves Moldova. Valentina's life back there was no easy.
Challenge
Valentina not only had a difficult childhood, but life after that had also been difficult for her. She is a single mother of an Andrea 6 year old girl. In addition, she was also a mother of substitution at her nephew. Vera and Nikolay were happy to welcome all their grandchildren in their families and were happy to be part of a family as enlarged.
Stealthy
As for Tatyana, she does not hold a rancor against anyone. She was also trying to know her birth family and was trying to adapt to it. However, it always shares an attachment with Vera and Nikolay. She was grateful to raise her in a human she was today.
Fate
This story can be called all the results of destiny. How two babies were switched to the hospital and how their lives were then shaped. Fortunately, they learned to know their true roots. We wish them happiness and good health for the future to come.
