The daughter's request for a strange gift on his birthday triggers an unexpected reaction from his father
Kelsey was going 13 years in a few days. No need to say like every other little girl she was also very excited of her birthday. As his birthday was special
Kelsey was going 13 years in a few days. No need to say like every other little girl she was also very excited of her birthday. As his birthday was special, she decided to make it more special by getting changes in her look. It was a perfect birthday for her at least it's what she thought. She had only requested a single gift from her mother, but the price she paid was beyond the imagination of anyone. The cost was too much to support a girl like Kelsey.
A teenager
Kelsey Frederick was going to enter a new phase of his life. The girl was going to light up again 13. Soon a teenager, Kelsey had a special wish for this birthday. No need to say that the girl was very excited of her birthday. His parents had separated so that the girl was celebrating her birthday with her father and her mother separately.
Thirteen queen
As this anniversary was very special for her, she wanted to do something different. No doubt the girl was going to have a big party but apart from that, Kelsey wanted her 13th birthday to be very memorable. However, little knew that his birthday was going to be very special but in a way she had never imagined. She thought of organizing a sleep with her good friends.
Strong points
Well, the anniversary was going to be an extra special given his mother financing her to have strong points on her hair. For the first time, she was going to put strong points on her hair. Many people in her school have highlights and she also decided to have one.
At the house of Dad
Finally, the day arrived. She went to the living room and came out with strengths that made her hair even more beautiful. The hairdresser had given his hair the perfect look. She could not wait to show her new hairstyle in front of her friends and family and especially her father. She went to her father's house.
She is not alone
Kelsey is not the only one to have two families. There are many young people who separated their parents. And many of them have torn their childhood between their two parents. However, it was not the case with Kelsey. She had to spend an equal time with her two parents.
Fun
Kelsey would pass her every weekend with a different parent. She had adapted to the different lives of her parents. Kelsey spends a lot of time playing baseball games whenever she is to her father. His two younger brothers will also enter the group. She had a very good connection with both.
Best friends
And with regard to his connection with his mother, they were like best friends. Kelsey would share everything with her. Christine would always encourage him to take new steps.
A knitting link
Thanks to Christine's favorable nature, Kelsey has never felt the need to hold secrets of her. And that's why Kelsey turns to her mother for help when her life gets off. But how his mother reacted to that really did the happy girl.
A different relationship
The girl was close to her father too but it was not the same with him. Perhaps because his father remained too busy with his work, he could not have enough time to listen to his daughter's story. She felt more connected to her mother and that's why she used to stay with her mother more than her father.
A family matter
Kelsey saw his Parents Schaffen and Christin separated when she was just a child. Initially, it was difficult for her to face the fact that his parents were not going to live together. But with time, she accepted the truth. However, she sometimes missed having a big family like her friends. However, his parents never let it happen to her.
Sports sport
Kelsey loved sports. She had engaged in many sports since her childhood. Sports were more like an escape for her. At the time, his parents divorced, she held sports. His parents also provided him with all the supports and tried not to leave their divorce to affect his life.
In agreement
Christine and Schaffen ended their friendly relationship. That's why they were always friends. Both knew it was important for them to have good relations for their daughter. They even approached a set of rules as well as guidelines that decided to follow while increasing Kelsey.
A little fish
One more thing they used to do to make their daughter happy. They had made a point of visiting Lake Erie with their daughter every month. Kelsey would wait until each month.
New love
Kelsey's father has found a new love in his life after a few months of divorce. The woman was her colleague at the fire station. When Kesley came to know about it, she had no objection with that. In fact, she took a taste for her father's new girlfriend.
It's official
The duo quickly married to the local court palace. Even if they decided not to go get a ceremony of great sumptuous, they had planned to dress for the celebration. Kelsey was extremely happy because his father had found his new love.
The agreement with his father
Christine seemed good with the new wife of Schaffen. Christin's only preoccupation was his daughter. Everything seemed normal and happy until Kelsey decided to go for these strengths in her hair. No need to mention with his father's wedding, many new changes had come into his father's life. Kelsey understood her totally.
Strong woman
Kelsey was a strong girl thanks to the strong women around her. His aunt Kelly fell through a person standing for his rights in Kesley who really influenced him. And also his Haylee Ann grandmother had a remarkable impact on her. The presence of these amazing figures in his life had only rendered stronger. Their fascinating stories impregnated with confidence in it.
Proximity
His two parents lived in Fostoria, Ohio. They did not stay very far from each other. As they used to live nearby, they decided to make her special birthday. And they make his unique birthday but not in a common sense.
A challenge
Choosing a perfect gift for a teenager is quite difficult. Above all, for someone like Kelsey who had seen a lot in his childhood. In addition, his hobbies were very different from the girls of his age. If clearly, his parents were still in doubt about what to give him.
Rollers
Kelsey was good with any type of gift, but there was something she had a big "no" for. It was Gaitz. She was not someone you could call "Girly-Girl". So she did only one request. She hoped for whatever the gift that her parents were considering were not too sparkling or pink. In order to reduce the best gift for her, Christi has decided to take help from his friends and family.
Not like the other girls
Kelsey had a keen interest to play softball. She had all the equipment needed for sport. What else did she like? She liked to fish. She would continue to fish with her cousins. But it would be strange to brown fishing equipment during the party.
Something a little cheaper
Kelsey always wanted a mia hamm jersey. They wanted to give it, but they were far too expensive. Unfortunately, both parents could not afford it. They had to think of something that would be a friendly pocket. Christine could not believe that her daughter was going to get into a new phase of her life. She had no idea of the volley of these 13 years. His sweet little baby was 13 years old.
A beauty queen
As it is common in the children of Kesley's age, she liked to experience her hair. She would also make makeup with her friends. For obvious reasons, the girl loved to attend the weddings that would give her the opportunity to make makeup. Christine was well aware of Kelsey's affection for makeup. However, she had no idea what Kelsey was going to ask her birthday. Kelsey told her mother: "Mom, I want to have highlights for my 13th birthday." The little girl was willing to reserve her hair with blond reflections. Christine did not see it coming.
Request
The request seemed ordinary but Christine doubted if his wish to get highlights on his hair escape from lack of confidence. Was not she confident of the way she looked? The children of his age often find their confidence who runs out when they started to give more importance to their appearance. It really disturbed Christine. But at the same time, Christin remembered that she had also had strengths on her hair before Kelsey's birth. Maybe that's what had influenced it. There was nothing to fear.
A great big sister
Christine gave Kelsey his permission. She was happy she could fill her wish. Kelsey was not just a big girl, but also a big amazing sister to her three younger brothers. Nevertheless, Christine was going to hit his only wish of his beloved daughter of his birthday.
Nails too
Christine knew which room to choose for that. The woman used to make her hair in a special living room for many years now. And the lounge services also included pedicures, manicures and massages. Kelsey was kind enough to love him. As Christin had a good knowledge with the salon staff, they even gave them a good reduction.
Match mom and daughter
So, at the same time mom and daughter have made pedicures and manicures. It seemed perfect. Now, the only thing that remains was the highlight on Kelsey's hair. Everything seemed to be on the right track and after about an hour hour, Kelsey's hair was finally ready. So what do you think that Kelsey's reaction was when she lives in a mirror?
There was her
Kelsey looked at himself in the mirror and could not leave his eyes with his beautiful hair. These strengths had completely changed his eyes. Even Christine could not believe it was his daughter. She looked beautiful. The strengths went totally with his face. And this big smile on his face gave it a prettier air.
A surprise of his sleeve
Well, if you think it's all. There was a greater surprise waiting for Kelsey. After getting his hair and his nails, Christin took him to a store to make you make up as she liked to do it. Can you guess which store they went? Christine took him to Sephora, Superstore makeup.
Papa Square
Kelsey looked like a princess. Christine took a picture of her and put it on Facebook to show the new look of Kelsey to her family and friends. Kelsey had become impatient to show his new hairstyle at his chips. But before meeting his friends, she had to visit her father first. It was the weekend and she had to spend this one with her father. His father had also planned to give him a lot of gifts. She wondered what her father was going to offer him.
His turn
Christine and Kelsey ended up in the car and directed to Schaffen's place. They had decided to stay there for a whole weekend. Kelsey was going to live with her father throughout the weekend.
Only him
As Kelsey spent more time with her mother, she would stop using the phone or something to do most of the time she spent with her father. Christine dropped at home after the deposition of his father's house. However, she started to feel strange. She felt like something was seriously wrong.
Mother's instinct
Christine knew that everything was in place but she still felt as if something was not right. Two days had passed through and she had not heard from Kelsey. She knew Kelsey ceases to use the phone when with her father. But still, she felt like this time the reason was something different. However, today was finally the day she was going to see her daughter again again.
Who was she?
Then she heard a bell. Someone like ringing his bell. She rushed to the door to unlock it and when she opened the door, she could not believe held in front of her. There was a girl with a swollen and swollen face standing at her door. The girl was crying and more than that, there was also another problem. It was only after a second that she realized it was Kelsey!
Not the same
Well, it was unexpected. Many questions formed in Christine's spirit. Why does Kelsey cry? Did she have a fall with his mother-in-law? That he has done? Christine was surprised. She thought there was something very bad with her hair. His hair did not seem like the last time she had seen it. In fact, now she had short hair. All its strengths and long locks have disappeared. What happened at Kelsey's Dad House?
A "cut"
Only a cursor glance on his hair could reveal that they have been shot. A professional hairdresser confirmed Christin's doubt when she noticed, "What did they do to this poor child, it's a" puzzle ", it's a childish cut without styling." Kelsey refused to see whoever holding his face in his hand. She never felt so much shame before.
A breath
Kelsey who had always stayed confidence in all her life now had trouble talking to her mother. Clearly, his self-esteem has broken into pieces. Christine tried to talk to but Kelsey was too shock to say anything. Well, Now Christin had only one way to understand all this. She jumped in her car and led to Kelsey's father's place.
How can you?
Christine smoked anger. She stormed in the house and started screaming at her ex-husband and his fiancé Sarah. She asked them why did they do it to his little girl? And before taking a step, why did not they ask. She learned that Kelsey's father did not like her new hairstyle. In fact, they hated him so much that they cut his hair. According to them, girls of her age should not go for highlights. They believed, "the actions have consequences".
Against his wishes
Christine could not just take it. She had to show them that "actions have consequences" and therefore went directly to the cops. The chief recalled: "The mother was angry at the care of her child. The haircut was carried out against the desires of the child under the direction of the father and the mother's mother-in-law. "There was no smile on his face now. What was supposed to be one of the best birthdays of his life turned out to be a nightmare!
Take it online
Christine was still not done with that. They had done an odious task and now they had to pay for that. She decided to humilize her further by putting the story of her act on Facebook. She wanted them to make the mistake they had committed.
When you v viral
Christine had never imagined by putting the post that she would reach so many people in a long period of time. And those who came to the photos and that his story could not hide their astonishment to the father's reaction on such a small issue. They were all standing with Kelsey and his mother.
In no time
Okay, to put it precisely, the position was shared 24,000 times and was reacted over 33,000 times in a week. The Netizens condemned Schaffen and his action of his fiancée openly.
A bit too much
Christine was receiving support from every corner of the world. It was more than she waited for it. In addition, people living thousands of kilometers from them expressed support for Kelsey and Christine. Many people called it "disgusting" and "ridiculous". One of the partisans commented, "What a cruel thing for a parent to make their child. So, sorry that it happened ... Nice no matter what! "
College misfortunes
Kelsey was still very embarrassed. She did not want to go to school. She doubted everyone in the school would make fun of her hair. Above all, after the post went viral. Now everyone knew it. Everyone has forgotten about it after a moment. His father and family are returned to their old routine, his brothers were back at school but Kelsey was still stuck there. It does not matter how much tried, she could not forget the incident that stung his heart from time to time.
Speculation
WHEREAS some people considered that Schaffen an impulsive and controlling father, there were some who made allusion to different possibilities. One of the commentators explained: "I think the girl was unfortunately in the middle of a return to you between the two parents fighting." Could it be true? Has Christine been deliberately?
Confidence
Jennifer McVay, pear salon hair stylist, said, "Your hair is what really makes you feel good. If your hair is good, you feel good. She had beautiful long hair, this beautiful little girl is now embarrassed. She added, "Another person, except the father, is fault. Whoever holds the scissors. But back to the Father, why would they humiliate their daughter this way? It crossed a thin line ".
A fine line
It would be logical to say that people had different opinions on the issue. Some admitted that they get angry as well if their daughter would go making a makeover without telling them. But there was no way that a parent would behave as irrationally. Some have said that the decision to die of hair so young age was bad. Some have opined that hair death was not a big deal because it was temporary. What everyone has been most, the most was the father's reaction.
Sympathy of foreigners
Kelsey has also received a lot of comforting messages. Some even shared ways by which she could make her hair well. Many people told him they were standing with her. As the incident had reached many hearts, Cristine decided to do something about it. She decided to collect funds across Gofundme. She asked readers to donate some funds so that Kelsey can have a new hair treatment. However, it was just a shot. She did not know if it would work.
Component for that
Christine has been totally caught off guard by the gift of people. Christine was submerged by the support. So, she did a step to update the page. She has updated the events and many other things that happened in Kelsey's life. She said the girl comes out of the trauma and started doing things she loves.
No longer shame
Kelsey was coming back to her normal life. Christine posted a photo of her playing on softball with her cousins. During all this, when she had this hairstyle she despised the most. But there was nothing she could do about it. For some, the little girl appeared as an inspiration. But if you think it was the end of Kelsey's story, you are mistaken. There was another turn on the left.
Solid support
Some people thought of this incident to be a case of parental abuse. Now the story had also involved the authorities. Fox8 broadcast the case and even interviewed Colby Carroll, Chief of Police. They showed how Kelsey was forced to cut her hair as a punishment. The police officer said: "I did it since 1992 and I never had any case I would say it's like that."
Never before
The authorities finally went to see Schaffen. Therefore, the couple was suspended from its functions to the Fire Service of the Canton Middletown. While they no longer worked now, the couple was put on "administrative leave". Not only that, an investigation was also launched against them who resulted in the local judges the commander to pay a prize.
Consequences for their actions
There were more. The authorities gave the full custody of Kelsey to Christine. "After 5 hours of testimony and" proof "provided by both parties, the decision of the magistrate was for Kelsey to live with mom and his brothers and sisters!"
Complete conservation
She added further: "A huge weight has been lifted up on everyone's shoulders and we can not be more [more happy] !!" Although Kelsey is pleased that his full guard is given to his mother, there were many favorite things that were left at his father's house.
Aunt Kelly at the rescue
After the incident, Kelsey no longer wanted to see his father as she knew how to see her again would bring all these memories that she struggled so hard to forget. So she decided not to go back. Although she lacked her business, there was no way she was going back there. She felt a little sad but she did not last long thanks to her aunt Kelly. Aunt Kelly took on the GoFundme to collect enough funds to drive a normal life.
Define aims
Although everything was fine, Christine and Kelsey still felt bad. Now, Kelsey would never meet his father. The relationship had aggravated only. However, she rejoiced again when we learned that people were overlapped their love by giving money. Aunt Kelly had kept the target with a thousand dollars but a lot to everyone's surprise that the amount raised was twice. So, what will they do with the amount?
Achieve their target goals
Well, the amount was going to be used to fix it to his hair. They went for the Lady Jane Salon to bring back his hair to his old beautiful self. The staff already knew about her. The girl had greetings from a hosting committee her minute she entered the square.
Returned to the show
The staff asked her what she wanted and how she wanted to upset her hair. The girl was well aware that he was going for a while for her hair to grow as long as they were earlier. So she decided to pick up a wig. She felt very happy to see so many people showing their support.
Grateful
Kelsey's mother thanked everyone who supported them: "I would like to thank the ladies ... to make my baby looks more like itself!" "We really appreciate the ladies so much!"
Courageous
Seeing that their parents divide themselves are themselves a great trauma. Kelsey not only survived only, but also presenting it. The girl had shown courage from the beginning. That's why it was not surprising that the girl managed to face the brutality shown on her birthday by her own father.