Good Lifestyle

Most of our lives revolve around the people we love the most. All of this arrives, and it directly affects our peace of mind. Some people mean the world for us and we will have a good pleasure to keep them safe. God forbids that something comes to anyone who is close to us, it will certainly affect us terribly. The worst moments are when people are left behind without any closure and such an incident destroyed the life of a perfect family.
The Nagy family lived a happy life for many years as an ordinary family. They had no idea of ​​the short life of their happiness was going to be.

The beginning

Two people of German origin met, became friends, fall in love, married and had a baby named Gabriel. All this happened during the second World War II. People who have witnessed even the least of the events that took place during these black years lost some of their mental peace. The world was different after the war and a large number of people around the world were deeply affected by her.

DRASTIC EFFECTS

The war was over but left sustainable effects on people. This couple also suffered from negative emotions of war. While everyone was hard to look at the future in life, it seemed impossible for this couple to forget everything they witnessed during the war and live a simple life. They would always have adjusted if it was about both, but they could not ask their little one to be content with less.

Limited options

It does not matter the hardness of this couple, as long as they were in Germany, war memories did not disappear. In addition, their country had very limited options to offer and the couple knew they had to move to give their newborn a normal environment to grow.For the sake of their newborn, the couple started looking for better options for living a regular life.

Best options

After learning about many countries, the couple finally agreed to move to Australia and try its fortune in the far-earthed option of their country of origin. Shortly after the decision, they finished all the formalities and were all taken to restart their lives on the smallest continent of our world.

Life in Australia

So when Gabriel was a very young boy, his parents settled in Sydney in New South Wales, Australia. Unfortunately, the emotional wounds of the war were so serious that they have never managed to give Gabriel the ideal type of childhood he deserved. The boy had many problems during his childhood, in his neighborhood and school.

A stranger

Although Gabriel felt like Australia was his country of origin, he was teased by other children of the same age group to be a foreigner who took a shelter in their country. Over time, all these intimidators have faded, but Gabriel has never forgotten these experiences.

The hard work of parents

Far from their homeland, Gabriel's parents worked hard to make a stable life in the new country. His father used to visit them once in every two months, as he was usually posted to work on delays, his mother worked part-time in two locations every day, even on weekends.

Neglected child

As his two parents were busy winning, Gabriel was often left to daycare or with a baby-sitter. Without any other sister brother to share his feelings, Gabriel felt neglected throughout his childhood. The child's life was difficult for him, but he grew up to be a wise and sensitive man.

The choice to stay

After graduating from an Australian university, Gabriel still had the choice to move to Germany, his homeland. However, he chose to stay in Australia as this country started to feel at home. He did not want to spend a life with the struggle to settle as his parents.

The woman of her life

Gabriel was confused about his prospects when he met a woman named Pamela. She was the one who did bury his childhood grudge and watch the beyond. Her glowing smile made everything easier for Gabriel and his wise suggestions showed him the right direction. Gabriel finally decided to study further and become accountant.

Keep it forever

In late 1970, Pamela and Gabriel decided to marry. Gabriel started working as a shopfitter and continued his studies at the same time. No matter how much he loved his wife newlywed, he quickly realized that marries the very young marriage. Sometimes he had this feeling like marriage was a huge mistake for them, he continued with the marriage of life calmly.

paternal instincts

Pamela and Gabriel soon become the parents of two children; Stephen and Jennifer. It was with the birth of their children, the Nagy family felt complete and peaceful. Yes, they also had their ups and downs they have learned to manage easily now. Gabriel hoped that the future of his family but less aware of the actual incident about to completely change the life of the Nagy family.

The 1987

In January 1987, Gabriel lived in his new house bought in Sydney with his wife Pamela and their two children Stephen and Jennifer, aged 12 and nine. Gabriel was just a few months to be qualified to apply for the appointment of an accountant. He worked extremely hard with high hopes.

Night classes

January 21, 1987 Gabriel left home for work and as usual, he called his wife around mealtimes he joined for lunch once he finished the race way back home. Gabriel attended evening classes in bookkeeping which meant he reached home late on a daily basis. Nevertheless, the good man's family is guaranteed to have at least one meal of the day with his wife and children.

Wait and wait

Pamela Sets the table but Gabriel did not come home at lunch time. Children have lunch but Pamela waited for her husband to return. Hours passed, but he never made it home and it was very unlikely Gabriel. She waited all day for his call but there was no idea of ​​Gabriel.

The state of panic

In the state of anxiety, Pamela called the office of Gabriel, his evening classes, all his friends and family members where it could have been. Finally, she found no place where the distressed mother called 911. When the neighbors saw the cops arriving home Nagys, they also went to investigate what the matter was.

The negative result

The absence of Gabriel and the state ripping Pamela move Stephen and Jennifer. The two children were trying to console their mother was unable to take the situation of the situation. The disappearance of Gabriel was only the beginning of the endless struggle of the Nagy family.

The search operation

"It was very shortly after that everyone started to recover and began to put the great alarm bell," recalled Jennifer search operations that were initiated by their neighbors, their friends and family . For two weeks there was no evidence in the case, then the cops found the car Nagy.

The shocking discovery

Initially, Pamela was in shock when the cops were informed of the recent discovery they made related to the case. She could not hold back tears while investigators continued to explain the disastrous condition in which they found the car of Gabriel. She did not know what to expect.

Shell burned

So far, Gabriel was worried and confused but listening to the cops, she could feel his family and his life separate breaks. The cops found the burned shell of the car her husband. The only thing that raises this was the fact that Gabriel was nowhere. That kept alive the hopes of the family.

The constant issue

Clearly, his car had a serious accident because it was just a rusty shell and now the most important question remained as it was, where was Gabriel? The family felt abandoned without closure and to add to this emotional burden and ongoing concerns, the greatest revelation has broken once and for all.

Final information

Obviously, a few days after his disappearance, Gabriel entered a branch of Newcastle Bank, a city about 100 meters from Northern Sydney, where his house was situated and withdrew all the money. What does it even do in Newcastle? What was happening with him? Each question raised by Pamela has received a more disturbing answer than the previous one.

Camping equipment

In addition, the cops got the information from the bank that Gabriel was considering using this money to buy camping equipment. Now, this part of the story has completely broken the Pamela. She did not get any of that, it just did not feel sense for her and she was at the edge of a failure.

Financial crisis

At the time, Pamela recently bought a house with her husband and they still had to pay more than half of her loan payments. Her husband's car crashes, he disappears himself and then withdraws his economies like that did not look like the actions of the man she fell in love.

The little agony

Does Gabriel still lived a double life? Or does he need help? Does anyone else use his name? Or was he even alive? These questions remained unanswered. Jennifer was very young for all that was going on and the children used to say how his father abandoned him and with his mother and brother. "It was so traumatic for everyone. It really affected me emotionally. People will ask," Where is your father? "It was too painful," said Jennifer.

Contradictory

"He had never been absent from home without saying anyone," said Jennifer the behavior of his father. She then added: "Nobody had answers to explain the sudden disappearance of a father who was a loving and attentive father. I thought he was my world and suddenly he took me far from me. "

Shift

Tired of all the taunts and questions, Pamela, Stephen and Jennifer moved to the Sunshine Coast, Queensland, about 500 miles from Sydney. They left home but have never lost the hope of getting back from Gabriel. They kept their details updated in case he changed the mind and wants to come back.

A breakthrough

Gabriel disappeared 23 years ago and the cold business investigators trying to go to the bottom of this strange case failed each time. Senior Constable Georgia Robinson was responsible for submitting the documents at the hearing at the CORONER Tribunal so that the authorities could legally declare it deceased.

The last attempt

When Georgia tried to make a final attempt to follow Gabriel before submitting the documents, she discovered a strange information information only a few weeks before the hearing. In his research, she discovered that the Australian Medicare Health Authority documents mentioned a man named Gabriel Nagy in their recent archives undergone eye surgery.

A different name

Georgia added reports to Medicare and realized that this man was also going on the name of Ron Saunders and lived in MacKay, East Queensland, located more than 1,000 km from Jennifer's missing place.

Step by step

Finally, Georgia had an idea of ​​this man named Ron's number. The man remembered the call as "[Georgia] wanted to come and talk with me." Ron could not answer Georgia's questions. He was confused and disconcerted with all that Georgia was trying to know from him. Understanding the critical situation, Georgia has asked the man to meet her in person.

A homeless man

When Georgia contacted Ron, he worked at the MacKay River Church of La Life. He explained to the senior agent that he lived in the street as long as he could remember. "There was something at the back of my head there that I had to do something wrong with how I was," he remembered.

Intrigued and curious

The man was afraid to meet her, feared that he could get caught for a crime that he could not even remember committing. Yet Georgia convinced in one way or another of the curious man. "The first thing she said when she arrived was:" You did not kill anyone. You are not searched by the police. You are a missing person and it's not a crime, "said Ron.

Were these two people the same person?

So was Gabriel's search? Gabriel Nagy lived under the name Ron? If so, so why? "She asked me a lot of questions and I started showing me photographs," said Ron. And these photos have proven to be of great help.

Flashbacks and more

"It was like a comic book where the flashbulbs go over the heads of people. [Georgia] gave me a letter from Jennifer, a letter from WP and letters from my father and my father, reminded Ron. And that's when Ron started telling an incredible story. He was indeed Gabriel Nagy!

What's wrong with me?

On the evening of January 21, 1987, Pamila called his friends and family, Gabriel woke up in the crushed car, covered with blood and no previous memories. And suddenly, he was a stranger in his own city. He could not remember anything that happened before her.

A big emptiness

On the one hand, Gabriel's family was looking for him, while, on the other hand, he had no idea of ​​his past. He said in an interview: "It was just a big emptiness in my mind, and every time I tried to think about it, it just made me ask me, '[AM] I'm crazy? Has he arrived at me? "And then I would think of myself", what did I do to be in such a position? ""

Had to be something terrible

The confused man began thinking about the possibility he could be criminal. He recalled: "I would just feel guilty and do you think:" Maybe I committed a killing or a bank flight or something like that, so I would sometimes jump inside a bottle, And it really helped me to forget things. "

The precise explanation

The condition that Gabriel has suffered was dissociative fugue. In accordance with Cleveland's clinic, "In addition, rapid intervention after a traumatic event or emotionally painful experience could help reduce the risk of developing dissociative disorders".

Live as a mess

Gabriel did not make contacts and did small jobs to fill his stomach. He was afraid to get caught what prevented him from approaching the cops. For more than two decades, he lived like a homeless man without any memory of his past.

Whatever

Tired of living in the street, Gabriel immediately accepted Barry Hayhoe's offer, a pastor from the river church of life, a man offered him for food every two days. They gave him and a small space to live and that Gabriel explained: "I jumped on the occasion and he kept me in the streets. »

Resembling a greyhound

"Apparently, then I looked like a greyhound. All coasts, skin and bones, "recalled Gabriel. After a few months, he worked at the church as guardian. It has been rewarded to be grateful.

Live under a pseudonym

"I lived under a pseudonym for a long time, but I had flashes with my own name; Things come back slowly, "said Gabriel in an interview. He was about to finish two years in the church when some past memories started appearing before him.

A permanent work

The hard work of Gabriel at the church finally carried its doors when it was offered to a permanent work to work part-time in a retirement home. Although Gabriel's memories came back, he was not sure what it should do with this information. It all started to fall in the right place where Gabriel had eye surgery where he mentioned his real name.

The longest letter

"I sat down and written the longest letter I ever wrote in my life - seven pages and a half on both sides of the paper," remembers Gabriel. He quickly dropped the note in the nearest postal box and waited for the answer. In a few days, he received the most awaited letter.

Hi Dad

"[The message] said," Hi, Dad, "and who was enough to make me cry," said Gabriel. "[Jennifer] wrote that she had finished the letter and she has loved me," he added. His daughter forgotten was not the only person who was eager to hear Gabriel.

Old love returned

In a few minutes of reading the letter, Gabriel received a call. He remembered the valuable moment as follows: "Ten minutes later, the phone rang, and it was Pam. We talked to the death of the battery. "He was overwhelmed by all the love he received after decades of assuming he was alone in the world.

The emotional meeting

Jennifer who was 32 when Gabriel has been identified, booked immediately tickets in MacKay. "He met me at the airport with a big bouquet of flowers. It was as if it were idling and we crossed the airport in the arms on the other. "

So unreal

"It was like in the Bible - the prodigal son returning home. It was unreal," remembered Gabriel who was able to meet with Pamila, Father and other family members. Although he only lives in MacKay, this meeting has helped him a lot. "I'm always a little crazy sometimes but in the best way that I was before. At least I grew up. I make better decisions," said Gabriel, who is Always beats with mental health.

Let them know

"If you left the house - for any reason - ring and someone knows that you're fine. It's not forced to be your family. Knowledge can not really, really affect you at the end" , Jennifer said who stayed in regular contact with Gabriel since he was found.