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Adoption

The very first option that this couple had had to adopt a baby and, as they were quite strong, legal affairs and adoption costs were something they could easily bear. Despite this, they did not enter for adoption as they wanted the baby to be clean. So the very feasible option they had had was substitution.

Looking for a substitute

The couple knew that maternity was the only solution through which they will give birth to their own baby via the belly of another woman. Their spermatozoa and eggs could be fertilized outside the uterus, then the fertilized egg could be transplanted into the belly of substitution. But the biggest question was where would they find a trustworthy mother for their child?

COTS using

The couple has reached baby beds that was a non-profitable organization that helped couples without child experience the joy of parenting by giving birth to their baby through substitution. At COTS, the couple met a woman named Margaret. However, no one knew how much their life would take their lives in the months to follow.

Surrogate mother

Margaret was a single mother of 42 years old. Herself had two children, one of 14 years old and the aged age of 16. Although she lived a blossoming life and was happy with her two sons, while she heard the story of the couple who had tried a baby for six years, she could not refuse to help them. She agreed to help the couple without child.

The meeting

As part of the COTS procedure, a meeting has been programmed between biological parents and the substitute mother. This was done to try to familiarize the couple and the woman who would wear their baby and sign on some legal documents. The trio also agreed that the torque would pay Margaret $ 10,000 in payments to respond to its expenses.

A condition

A few days before the programming of this meeting, a COTS representative visited Margaret's place and gave him the opportunity to choose from three couples to whom she would like to be a substitution. While choosing this couple because of their sad story, days after the meeting, Margaret also offers a condition for the couple. What was she up?

A friendship

Margaret asked the couple that once she gave birth to their child, she would be allowed to access these children. It will not be refused the chance to meet them and also that the couple would maintain a friendly tie to her. She thought it would mean that the child will be able to have the love of all three. After thinking for a moment, the couple accepted this condition, but only the alarming bells sounded ...

First try

In December, the very first attempt to transplant the fertilized egg in the Margaret belly was made. Fortunately, the attempt was a success. The couple was delighted that finally, they will start in parenthood. But as a month adopted, the fetus showed no sign of growth and the doctors concerned decided to make a second attempt.

Second trial

Initially, the couple was scared, but as they had another fertilized egg, doctors infused it in the belly of substitution. This was done in February. The couple has just prayed for the healthy development of their child and had all their hopes for this egg. And as another month has passed, the unexpected hit them.

twins

When Margaret was called to his routine assessment, the trio was disconcerted by the unexpected. The doctors told them with a total surprise that the eggs they infused in December now showed the signs of growth and that transplanted in February was also growing. It meant Margaret wore a series of twins for the couple. It had to be a piece of exciting news for them, but it did not seem.

Suspicious

Margaret was a little worried. As she was already 42 years old, she was concerned about her maternal health when she came to give birth to Twins. To be sure of his medical health, she informed the same thing. On the other side, the couple has not shown a lot of excitement. All this and more disturbed Margaret. Just then she learned to know something, which changed the destiny of the children to be born in a second.

A thought

While discussing his case with the doctor, Margaret asked the expert how things would they be if she decides to end one of her babies. As if it could provide a better future on the other. It was only a thought she had and discussed with the doctor, at the same time, a representative of COTS informs him about a shocking decision that the couple did.

Finish

The representative told Margaret that the couple had already made arrangements to end one of his unborn children. This news was shocked towards her. She had just thought about it but was not sure if she urged him or not and such a decision of the couple frightened. Things were not going as planned and this carrier mother then took things in his hand.

Annoyed substitute

The couple without even discussing their concern with Margaret has taken this bold decision. And Margaret was not ready to accept it. As she always wanted a friendly relationship with the couple, the duo did not seem to do that. They instead of contacting it directly have always initiated the conversation through representatives. And with that, things started ruining.

Bold statement

Although Margaret asked Cotes to give them some to think about this decision, the couple would not let her think. It was their baby and they had the only right to make all the decisions concerned. Margaret felt so under pressure and emphasized that she made a bold statement, "I keep babies".

The mother is a mother

It was for the first time noted that a substitution mother who did not have a biological connection to babies made a daring statement. She clearly refused to end the baby and decided to lift both children. As she was the one who carries the children in her belly and would also give birth, she was indeed the "mother" to these unborn children.

Stopped payments

In the words of Margaret, things have turned into disgusting when the couple has stopped paying his bills. As decided in advance that the couple would give him $ 10,000 to raise their child, the couple stopped paying it several times and she held it only $ 600. It was not yet.

A spy

Margaret also says that after his refusal to hand over their babies, the couple hired a professional investigator to spy on him. He would keep a check if she had finished the baby or not and if she was still pregnant. As the couple and Margaret have lost all the confidence, they did not communicate directly but used COTS representatives for the same thing.

Court case filed

The couple filed a court case against the substitute mother. While Margaret demanded child care. And in order to win the case, the couple had to prove that Margaret was an improper mother who could not provide children with a decent life. She was a patient of depression and could potentially hurt children.

C-Sec Birth

Margaret recalls how during the emergency crisis, the couple was not available at the scene. As one of the twins was in a seat position, an instantaneous Cesarean section was to be performed and the babies were born prematurely. After a few days when Margaret returns to Margaret, she saw the biological father at his doors.

Not a commercial transaction

In the afternoon around 2 pm, the father hit the door of Margaret's house. And when she came to see who it was, she was terrified. The father asked the substitute for handing her children. It was his babies and he had the right. For Margaret shouted that it was not a commercial transaction. She feels used as the parents did not take care of her throughout the phase and were now there to take the babies.

Not to sell

The biological father even proposes to pay $ 25,000 in Margaret in exchange for his children, but Margaret instantly rejected the money on his face and stated that babies were not for sale. Throughout the pregnancy phase, Margaret has developed an attachment towards babies and was now not ready to give up.

Not a incubator

Later in an interview when an interview asked why Margaret has kept the babies she said, "When it became clear for me that this couple, both professionals, saw that just a business arrangement, and me as a kind of incubator, I changed my mind and decided to keep children "

Need some time

Currently, the case is under the supervision of the Court. Judges have not yet made the decision of the fate of children. Even they do not want to make a mistake with the parents of small twins. However, Margaret with his medical reports by hand has been able to prove that it is perfectly healthy to bring the twins.

Visit

However, the Court has granted biological parents to visit. Every weekend, the couple was allowed to take the babies with them and Sunday afternoon, the children were handed over to Margaret. And the substitute mother was happy with that.

A deal

Margaret says she was happy that the parents had visiting rights as herself on the first hand asked for a friendly tie with the couple where she is allowed to visit the children after their membership. She was happy to share her children with them, but she never wanted to abandon them.

Gluing

Margaret, in order to concretize his side of the same point, says that would be unbearable for her if the twins are kidnapped. In addition, she says that her elder teenage children also developed an attachment with their new set of twin siblings. They are a happy family and they should be left in this way only.

Barbarian call

Margaret says that it would be Barbaic if babies custody is not given to her now. As she was completely healthy and financial stable, she can claim them. In addition, she gave birth to twins and is also their mother. In addition, when the times come, she is even ready to tell her to her twins they have three parents.

A controversy

The whole case set up in a great controversy. A decision could not be made. None can decide who was right in this case. Whether the couple who broke the condition that substitutes presented or was the substitution that claimed an unjustified right on babies. At present, the twins are with the substitute mother and the biological parents are fighting for their guard.