Joint Shopping: How to persuade your beloved on shopping campaign
Shopping for a woman is a medication from stress and an opportunity to get a dose of pleasure. For men everything looks quite differently. They are not entirely clear why to go to another store if the first pants that hit their eyes already like.
For women, a trip to the store is a real ritual of pleasure: the opportunity to see themselves in different images, try a lot of beautiful things to prepare about the situation in which you could stubble with a new blouse or dress. Shopping for a woman is a medication from stress and an opportunity to get a dose of pleasure.
For men everything looks quite differently. They are not entirely clear why to go to another store if the first pants that hit their eyes already like. For what to measure hundreds of identical things, for which to spend money on a new T-shirt, if the old is so mildly and conveniently fucked on shoulders. For men, shopping is something unclear and unnecessary. In order for the shopping for a man not turned in a psychological trauma, it is necessary to connect the female trick and all the charms which are only in the arsenal.
Example
To begin with, you need to look closely to the husband's ideas. Match the righteous moment and try on an example of an authoritative person to make an opinion to how stylish people may look like a brutal man. The main thing is to do it thin, and not just drip on the brains. And then sooner or later, the man will appear that it would be nice some elements to take and herself. The strap as James Bond, shoes and Pullover as in the Heroes of the Genetel Movie and so on.
The right time
When in a woman's difficulty, shopping is antistress. A few more courses in different stores and views of new collections can quickly raise the mood. The reason for this interaction still remains secret. But when in a man in some areas there are small problems: a lot of work or a failed football match, then the offer to go shopping, only providing the negative. Therefore, for the offer to go shopping it is important to choose the right moment. Ideal when a man is son and happy, then he can promise anything. And then only the matter of technology - remind him of the promise.
No superfluous information is required
He is accurately indifferent why the new handbag from Channel is so steep. It is not necessary to tell your husband all of the funds of the fashion industry, it definitely will not appreciate a new collection, unless it is a collection of cars. Sending its information about fashion and clothing - you risks that your beloved will be a shopping allergy. Of course, it may be an exception and it will really be interesting to listen to the fench trends, but if your husband is really interested in - it is worthwhile to look a bit more closely, just in case.
Substitution of concepts
Calling your beloved not shopping, and go to the shopping center in bowling, cinema, etc. Of course, it will be necessary to go to entertainment first, and then inadvertently to offer to go to one store, and then in another and then it will begin what you came to the shopping. A man is psychologically much easier to accept a proposal to go to a mall without a specific goal than to agree to shopping.
Rationality
It will be much easier to persuade a man to hike to the store, if there is a specific list of what is really necessary, and not as it often happens - went to buy macaroni, but returned, with a new pair of shoes. When there will be a shopping list, a man will appreciate what amount to count on. It will significantly reduce its stress when it sees that at the end of the purchases that funds on the map became less to the amount he counted.
Appreciation
In independence from how it was in you shopping, let the man understand that you are truly very grateful for your time. Reward it for a pleasant surprise. This may be anything: striptease, a new gadget for him, shared his beloved football or serial. The main thing is that he has formed a direct association that every hike in the store will be offset by a pleasant bonus.
Do not overdain
You feel when your beloved really doesn't want to go with you and it will not make it do it. It is not worth it at such a moment to arrange hysterics or scandals. From this exactly nothing is good. There is a great risk that you provoke a conflict, it will run away and it's just stress for you. And if you still "take the top" and the shopping campaign will take place, it will be a real hard for you both.
