Good Lifestyle

Become a parent much easier than being a parent. Message to someone life, you need to help this new person build your new life, to teach her to live happily. And in order to do this, it is worth being able to tap itself. How to become an ideal parent for your children?

Conduct a child more time

We all have thousands of affairs and obligations, including mostly earning money for the family. But it's impossible to buy time, as it is impossible to compensate it if it is already lost. Find time on common studies with your children, because it is at such moments that the memories they (and expression with them) will take through life. Perhaps not every business trip to the meeting is worthwhile to postpone family plans.

Askless to say "No"

Nobody likes to say "no", the more to tell the "no" child who expects the father of all the best in the world. But, unfortunately, life will defend all our desires. And even if your children could receive, which would only want, unlikely to make them happy. But the ability to change its desires and listen to others will be useful in their lives. Severely tell them "no", but also teach them peacefully to refusals. In its future, it will make their life much happier.

Play with children

The game with children is not just a game. In game form, there are many vital skills, in particular, communicate with others, understand the rules, use fantasy and attention. In addition, useful inactive outdoor games, helping to develop not only social sciences, but also physical health.

At least once a week dinner all together

Often, all family members live in their rhythms, sometimes quite tense. Finding time on high-quality communication with each year is more difficult, especially now, when the attention of children has to compete with smartphones. If once a week you will allocate the evening when we all get together to gather at one table, share news, talk to andpaste together, such moments can become the favorite evenings of your week.

Mark an effort rather than a result

All we do not always get what you wanted. In the miracles of your children, you will have to face frustration and failures. They say with children about such moments, mark them efforts, and not a result. After all, the result is not always a hundred percent, while the skill is taught by fully valuable life. Do not get to the estimates, and encourage your conscientious work. It will bring the result late soon.

Allow children to learn on their own mistakes

A great test for any young parent - allow the child to fall and it is possible to fill the bruise (or not one). We are always intentive to protect children from pain, both physical, and psychological. And, unfortunately, we can not lock them at home and ensure that safety. Try to restrain the protective instinct. Give the benefits to mistake and teach them to treat mistakes.

Give an impression and not things

Not so just convince the child that the trip will be more closely than a new toy or smartphone. However, studies show that it is a better remember that we have experienced than what we owned. Therefore, I learn mydests more to appreciate together and interestingly spent time than buying technological gifts.

Know their friends

Friends have a huge impact on your children, a subroad is one of the most important factors for personality formation. Friends have an actual impact on who your children will be. It is not necessary to ignore this impact. Introduce them to the guest room, get acquainted with them, spend time with them (andother parents). This will give you better understanding that your child is interested in which the qualities in people it extends and what lives. In addition, the authority of friends of friends will add to you convincing in communication with your own kids.

Respect their mother

Whatever relationship between parents, remember that the most likely that the family life of your children will remind your own. Because even if you have a divorce, be grass in communicating with a split wife, respect her life, appreciate her help. Build yours like that you would like to see your son's family or daughter. Show smoke sample and you can be calm when they choose partners.

Be a friend, but don't forget to be a parent

Being a friend to my children - does not mean letting them do everything they want. The responsibility of an adult from you no one removes. Being a friend - means not to betray their trust, to appreciate their sincerity, stay on them even in moments of mistakes. After all, the best father is the one who raised happy and self-industrial children.