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Previously, young people read love novels, and now they look at romantic films. And those and others unites one - unrealistic ideas about marriage and love. From outside the stereotypes interfere with many of us to build a truly harmonious relationship. Here is a list of the most common misconceptions about the relationships that are found in almost every Hollywood romantic comedy or melodrama.

1. Love at first sight

In romantic comedies and melodramas, the main characters, as a rule, fall in love with each other at first sight. In the movie it looks very natural, but in real life only a passion or love instantly arises between a man and a woman. And this is already a story about hormones, but not love. However, over time, these feelings can grow into something more. Although, in most cases, such a miracle does not happen. However, the creators of films need to somehow invest in the allotted time frames, for this they are simply forced to rapidly develop the attitudes of the characters.

2. Opposites are attracted

Usually in Hollywood films, the heroes are in love with different social strata. Recall the story of "Beauty" performed by Julia Roberts. Although other options are possible: excellence and hooligan, good-natured hat and cynical intellectual. But, no matter how sad it was sad, the principle of opposites in real life does not work. People with different temperament, from different social classes and even with different levels of education it is extremely difficult to build harmonious and happy relationships.

3. Scandals are romantic

According to cinema, quarrels and scandals are an indispensable attribute of love relationships. As a rule, such scenes are accompanied by a rapid surge of passion. In fact, romantizing regular clarification of relations is rather dangerous. Psychologists assure that couples that constantly swear, feel unhappy.

4. Lovers understand each other without words

Jack and Rose, Bridget Jones and Mr. Darcy - Which of us did not dream of finding your soul mate? In the cinema these characters understand each other almost without words. Alas, in the usual life of this level of telepathy is difficult to achieve. It is much easier to learn to discuss your desires and needs with a partner. Joint discussion of problems is the key to mutual understanding and effective communication.

5. Wedding - the main event in the life of a woman

Men are confident that all women are concerned about the only idea - as if quickly get married. Hence the unreasonable fear to tie a serious relationship. Not the last role in the formation of this stereotype played a movie. Even now, when the patriarchal lifestyle will slowly roll into non-existence, Hollywood still believes that the wedding is the most extensive event in the life of a woman.

6. All Publishing Love

The love between a man and a woman is, of course, an important component of human existence, but still far from the only one. As if films, they tried us to convince that all problems can be solved with the help of another person, in practice it does not work. After all, if you do not like yourself, draw someone else's love, even the cleanest, will not make you happy.