Batyushka told why men more often change married
The clergyman admitted that in confessions, parishioners often tell him about the treasures in marriage. If we compare men and women, then the first changes much more often. What is it caused?
Pavel Ostrovsky received wide fame due to the television program "Priest's answer. Direct line "and Internet project" Batyushka online ". In addition, he actively works on social networks, and also gives an interview with popular youtube bloggers. In a conversation with a journalist and video unit Ilya Varlamov, the priest discussed issues related to marriage and betrayal.
The clergyman admitted that in confessions, parishioners often tell him about the treasures in marriage. If we compare men and women, then the first changes much more often. What is it caused? According to the priest, the reason for such behavior lies in the upbringing. Boys from adolescence impose a thought about polygamy relations. When the 15-year-old young man sincerely falls in love with the girl, he says to him that it is non-serious. Like, you still have a lot. Such behavior we are already tightening men on the fact that they should have many women. What kind of dignity, honor and loyalty can we talk about?
At the same time, Paul noticed that her husbands would naturally change their wives not with penguins. And although in marriage women behave more chasandly, to marriage, many of them are not ashamed to have connections with married men. Sometimes they are, of course, tritely deceived, but in most cases, women belong to such novels. Based on his experience, Paul suggested that only a third of men retain loyalty to their spouses.
During the conversation, the priest noticed that he did not believe that the relationship between spouses in marriage could be equal, as men and women are absolutely arranged, both physically and emotionally. At the same time, he is categorically against the team's assault. He advises all women who have been violence will contact the appropriate authorities and require divorce. Husband should not raise his hand on his wife, like she on him. This is also very important.
As for the topic of divorce, Paul also turned out to be very categorical. For Christians, marriage is a certain School of Love, where each spouse learns to love and serve each other. When the problems of an intimate character arise in marriage, Ostrovsky advises to seek help from specialists, and not to seek consolation in other people's arms.
The father himself is already married to a woman named Margarita for 15 years. The spouses will grow up two daughters and son. On his page inInstagram. Paul often expresses the words of gratitude to his wife and children.
