8 things killing relationships

Love is fragile. Even the most beautiful relationship can destroy many things. Here are the most dangerous of them.


Love is fragile. Even the most beautiful relationship can destroy many things. Here are the most dangerous of them.

Jealousy

Happy relationship is always built on trust. Jealousy, in no case, is not a sign of love. By and large, this disrespect for your partner. Trust your second half. Each person should have their own personal space. And you must respect it. Do not swear in someone else's phone, do not look into someone else's email, do not search your pockets. All this humiliates you and destroys the relationship.

Lie

Lies like rust, corrosive any, even the strongest unions. Even the most innocent lie creates distrust. And this is the main catalyst of the collapse of the relationship. At the same time, it is important to be honest not only with your beloved, but with yourself. If something is not satisfied with the partner, sincerely ask yourself the question: Do you really want to give yourself to this relationship?

Desire to fix each other

If something annoys you in a partner at the beginning of the relationship, do not even hope to change this in the future. Ideal people do not happen. Therefore, you need to either put up with the shortcomings of your beloved, or immediately leave. After all, there are things that a person cannot change in themselves, no matter how much you were reproached.

Apathetoma

Never let yourself perceive the relationship as proper. You noticed how people finding a couple of themselves, slowly begin to lose interest in life? Evening to spend on the sofa from the TV? Capture overweight? You must always remain interesting to each other and not lose taste for life. Then the relationship will deliver satisfaction.

Silence

No one knows how to read other people's thoughts. Even a person who loves you insanely. If something bothers you, tell me about it. Do not like something? Do not be silent. To preserve psychological health it is very important to express emotions, both positive and negative. Although it is important here to know the measure. Constantly pouring the soul to the partner is also not suitable. To seek help to a psychologist is not at all amicing.

Permanent quarrels

Quarrels are part of any relationship. Another thing is when you do it all the time. Thus, you may want to fill out a spiritual emptiness that arose between you and your partner. In any case, never go the hell. Do not let yourself humiliate and insult partner. In any case, there is no such conflict that could not be resolved using a compromise.

Comparison with others

Do not idealize someone else's life. If it seems to you that the relationship of your friends, relatives, the girlfriends are perfect, you are deeply mistaken. You never see the whole picture entirely. Ideal families, novels, relationships are only in cinema. But your permanent claims and comparisons with other people's people can seriously injure the partner. In the end, this is your choice. So appreciate your relationship, let them far from the ideal.

Self-doubt

The lower you have self-esteem, the more vulnerable you feel. From here, many belling and resentment, which are often too far-fetched. Do not allow your own complexes to destroy your relationship.


Categories: Relationship
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