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Long-term relationship - is a set of puzzles that need to be matched to two independent person feel comfortable with each other, it is appropriate, and very desirable. Read more about the 10 most frequent factors in the relationship, which can destroy even the most durable union.

Brawl at the household level
Statistics show that a large number of couples quarrel happens on home soil. I love hard to get used to the habits of each other and as a whole to co-exist in the same area a long period. Over time, the behavior or manners begin to irritate, and conflicts explode showdown. Experts recommend the maximum divide household duties, then do not have to swear because of a trifle.

The constant desire to look better
Almost all people starting relationships, show the other person their very best, but eventually all the masks fall away, and many there comes disappointment. This is best avoided. It is better to gradually show its true face to you and your lover is still consistent with notions of each other, otherwise the separation can not be avoided.


manipulation lover
Those who have become subject to manipulation, they know how it is an unpleasant sensation. Not one romance ended because of the fact that at some point one of the pair begins to realize that he was being manipulated, and it really does not make decisions on their own.

Unwarranted self-indulgence and the partner
There is a type of people in the relationship, which now and then assert themselves at the expense of its second half. But it also inevitably leads to the collapse, because, in the end, people will start to look for a place where he will exalt and to appreciate its merits. In any case, due to manipulation happy in such a situation itself will not feel anybody.


Covering up resentment and the opposite opinion in matters of principle
Very often, avoiding sharp edges in communication, we hold a grudge against the partner. Unfortunately, resentment builds over time and can gain a huge scale, eating you from the inside or becoming a cause for major argument when you lay sore in one fell swoop. Psychologists advise calmly discuss with your partner everything that does not suit as they appear feelings of dissatisfaction.

Concealing important information from your favorite
Even under the guise of noble motives, do not hide anything important from your partner. In the end, the secret will come out either outwardly or emotionally drain you, which will also lead to disagreements. Be honest with each other. After all, you want to see from you nothing to hide.


Unwillingness to compromise
Any relationship - hard work, and the more long-term. Basis strong alliance - the ability to compromise. The love does not cost anything to prove and too zealously defend the view, but rather a wish to hear a loved one and to come to a common denominator in the interests of your best relationships. But be careful not to overstep the boundaries as: unduly sacrificing its own interests, or vice versa forcing favorite to commit any act.


Jealousy grows into obsession
At the beginning of the relationship jealousy lends a certain poignancy, shows partial, but in pathological manifestations - this is what causes the parting as often as treason. Live next to a man obsessed with the suspicion - real torture.

by inertia relationship
Going to crash, and the relationships that exist by inertia, without apparent interference by both partners. As a rule, people are very afraid of being alone, so do not dare to dramatic changes in his personal life, for fear of unforeseen and personal discomfort. As a result, it is only a postponement of disaster.


Roman for personal convenience
It is no secret that there are couples who have already exhausted in terms of romantic feelings, but still did not give each other the freedom because of the reluctance to break his own convenience. Over the years the relationship they already have acquired connections and acquaintances, shared moments, or the status of an ideal couple and do not want to destroy the idyll and opinion about them. Because of the habit of being next to each other, they do not want to leave. Experts advise to talk openly with your partner. Perhaps he feels something similar and then you can leave, not hurting each other's feelings.