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Isolation measures to prevent Corona viruses only recently applied in Europe and the United States, but have been applied by China from the end of last year, and so far many Chinese people have "died "At his home for a long time. Many people believe that this will lead to a children's explosion in this country, because when they cannot leave the house, maybe couples will use their free time to "produce" the baby. But the reality doesn't seem so optimistic.

Many couples have been breaking up, besides, many couples are planning to divorce as soon as possible. For many people, stuck with a partner at its own house 24/7 for more than a month is not a comfortable experience. With too much free time and almost nothing to do, many people began to reveal the left faces in personality, bad habits or even some secrets exposed.

Usually couples can live together for many years, but both go to work and meet only a period of day, ie most of the remaining time, everyone has its own life. But once both must opposite each other for many days - each person's true personality will be revealed.

Some women discovered that they were being "horned", some of them realized between them with a non-harmonious difference, although they were seen before they could get along. Perhaps you think they're just spending too much time at each other in a frustrating space, so it is too unpleasant to be normal, but it is really possible to live a lifetime with a person but even a person Doesn't stand it within a month?

On Chinese forums, there are many stories around hearing neighbors fighting, arguing and crying. Besides, some people complain that, even if both spouses are at home for a month, they rarely talk to each other more than 10 seconds every day. No matter what angle is considered, the time is very difficult to separate fruits. If you live alone, you can see loneliness and lack of interaction with people. On the other hand, if you realize you rarely talk to your spouse even though both are living together, this is worse.

Some people share that for them, self-isolation at home like living in a pressure cooker. That is, you locked in a secret space, negative thoughts like the demons stalking inside you, and you live with a person with strange emotional burdens and habits. At first you think everything will be fine, then you start to be frustrating with some things but don't want to quarrel for that. Because there is no way to get rid of this situation, the best way is to argue. Since then, the pressure gradually increased until one day when both were lost, everything exploded and both quarreled an unprecedented battle. That's why cities in China are having a number of divorce applications soared.

A marriage settlement agency in Dat Chau, in Sichuan province, located southwest China has received more than 300 divorce applications in the past two months. Other cities must limit the number of divorce files to be submitted every day, perhaps to limit couples to rush decision. But this way is not effective at all, because they will continue to wait until the next day. The fact is that people are queuing long to apply divorce.

Will this is a lesson learned for the future, or just a test for marriages that are not durable and the left side of self-isolation? It is difficult to have accurate answers at the present time. Some ideas that the number of divorce divorce may simply feel stressful and want to get rid of it as quickly as possible, some argue that the isolation has awakened reality Everyone's life and goals. So which comments are right? Only time can answer.