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If you want to commit yourself sentimentally and you are looking for a long-term relationship, sooner or later you will want to understand if you are "the only one" with which he imagines his future. Some of these clues will help you overcome this anxiety and discover it.

No psychological games
He won't make any psychological games, but he will throw here and there some "and if ...?" And if they offered you a job in another city? And if instead decided to take root? Would you risk the risk? All questions you will probably make you to see if you are ready to the big step.

You are a team
When he speaks concentrated on the words he uses, if he highlights the plural and if he passes from "I" to "us" and to "ours". It is no longer the lone wolf that decides only for himself, but shares your life and would never take important decisions without talking to his partner.

He invites you to meet his family
One of the clearest trials of a boy who intends to settle down is to preview his restricted family and then to the whole enlarged family, not so nice or to his aunt nosy. It is an almost unmistakable signal that has serious intentions with you. He wants you to know his parents, his brothers, and even his uncles, cousins, grandparents and so on. Your future with him is assured.

The things that matter for you are also important for him
Remember the little things makes the difference. The man you are attending pay attention to you and to everything you say. He never forgets your birthday, your anniversaries or any other important anniversary for you. He notices the small changes in your way to dress up, as you bring your hair, your mood, note if you avoid it. For him you are the most important person and for this reason everything about you counts you, for better or for worse.

It's your shield
Take jealousy when you talk about another boy. He is protective towards you, but never possessive and make sure you don't hurt you in any way. It doesn't mean he is checking you, but that whatever happens will be there to look back your shoulders. He will defend you from everything and everyone without thinking twice and will not even take into consideration the idea of ​​injuring you.

You are not just an adventure
Make sure you are not a simple story for him. And if this is among the possibilities you should stop playing with your heart and wasting your trust with those who don't deserve it and you should recover the lost time. It is important to define limits and expectations from the beginning.

Share is loving
It is an open book. He feels free to speak and share him feelings of him with you without problems. Know his hobbies, his friends and commitments of him. There are no secrets between you and he loves to share him with him, talking to you about how he feels and what he thinks. Tell him what you pass through your head and this will do nothing but strengthen your bond.

Trust your instincts
If your instinct tells you that, after all you have spent together, he is not the right one, don't pretend anything. If you feel that you are not going along the same path, don't let you call you out. If you have to take different paths, better before afterwards. If instead you feel that despite everything, he is the man who is for you, your intuition and your instinct will tell you strong and clear if your future is with him.