Good Lifestyle

Oh, love! When Cupid arrows us generally everything becomes pink and we feel that we float through the air. It is normal that during the fellow stage we want to be every minute with that person and follow the steps of it ... but, stop! There are situations that we can go as "normal" but they are not like that. Whether from the beginning or not, if you notice some of these signs, it means that you are in a toxic relationship.

1. Confuse obsession with love
It is natural that if you notice your partner flirting with another person or to flirt you in invoking you the wren of jealousy, but there are levels. When he continually snap his social networks to see who he talks about or who gives him "Like", spies his mobile phone or want to control each of his movements is an obsession and not of love. Mutual trust is a fundamental basis of any healthy relationship.

2. Control aspects of your life
Wanting to own control over almost all aspects of your partner's life is sick. When you tell you what you can dress or not, you have to "ask permission" to go out, handle your money, intervene in your work or forces you to stop frequenting certain friendships, no doubt something bad is happening. Remember that nobody has power over you, unless you give it.

3. It makes you feel guilty
When your partner blames you for all the bad things that occur or happen at home, you are sure you are dealing with a toxic manipulator. When in a relationship you feel that you never have the reason and that, no matter how hard you try, you will always "do wrong" in the other's view, it is a symptom of imminent danger. Employ your energy to be defending you constantly is harmful.

4. Justify your bad attitudes
If you treat you badly because you are in a bad mood or humble you in front of family or friends and justify you for some reason, you are in a toxic circle. No one has the right to insult, mistreat or degrade another, so be crossing the worst of the moments. When you invent excuses to soften your behavior, you hurt you.

5. You never tell you "no"
Trying to please the couple always is an exhausting and unnatural act. If you do not feel like preparing dinner or going to a social event with people who dislike is perfectly understandable that you deny yourself. Set aside your feelings and interests to satisfy the other is not synonymous with love.

6. Flee when problems arise
One of the best ways to know if your partner feels true love for you is that it supports you in difficult times. It is very easy to love when everything is wonderful, but if family, economic, health, work or any other problems arise and the other disappears, it is not involved or minimized, it is only with you for capricho or other reasons.

7. Want to change
We are all unique beings, with personalities, tastes and interests. Now, if your partner does not understand that and want to shape your way of being and live to become your love ideal, you are in trouble. It's okay to stop doing some harmful things (or negotiate certain customs) out of respect for the relationship, but not modify your essence. If you are in a toxic relationship, a day will arrive at which you will not know who you are.