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Whether it's the first or the 10th time for you, being a bridesmaid can be intimidating. It is an honor to be chosen as a bridesmaid, but the pressure that comes with this responsibility is real. Shake this glow and start memorizing the following list of your features awaited as a bridesmaid and how to not exceed.

1.It's your decision to do

You are not obliged to say yes. If you feel that the responsibility is too discouraging (financially, emotionally or otherwise), you will not be the worst friend of the world if you say no. Many others would be ecstatic to assume the role.

2. Level of engagement involved

If you accept the role, talk about the level of engagement and make sure you are comfortable with it. You will have to pay your own dress and your shoes. It is not exciting for the bridesmaids of people with expensive taste, but your bride could even let your own dress, so talk to it with it before

3. Help choose a dress

A bridesmaid helps the bride to find the ideal dress - Do not forget to support what the bride wants rather than choosing suddenly what you would like on your big day. Be honest with her, but not bad.

4. It's his day, not yours

On a related note to not choose a dress, you want: remember that it is his day, not yours. Your time will come to be designed and I hope your BFFS will support all the strange decisions you make. Although things become a bit difficult, do not make it more difficult by refusing to cooperate.

5. An assistant and best friend in a

Be his wife straight for all showers, pre-wedding festivities and rehearsal dinner.

6.Keep a trace of gifts

You must keep a recording of all gifts that the bride receives in order to thank notes can be sent accordingly.

7. A toast at the charming couple

You should definitely give a toast. To be chosen as a bridesmaid is a big deal and it should be treated with respect. Try to share a personal anecdote on you and the bride - maybe a funny, but in general, a liaison story will do.

8. Wizard with style, and all the Shebang

A bridesmaid of honor ensures that the bride looks impeccable the biggest day - it means helping with makeup, hair and dress adjustments if necessary. A bridesmaid serves basically as a stylist on the day of the wedding, so call the professionals if necessary if there is a little, and if not, get there!

9. You are part of a team, not a solitary wolf

A bridesmaid must always have a team player mentality - after all, there are often several bridesmaids and what is better than women's solidarity? Keep a good energy for his day of wedding and stick the reason you are all there: make an amazing day. If you have beef with another girl, put it on the side.

10. Pay attention to his needs

A good bridesmaid should remain attached to the needs of the bride - it does not mean that you can be telepathic. Pass a discussion with it in advance on how it is active (and physically) it wants you to be during the process, planning and other aspects of marriage.

11. What makes an appropriate gift?

Your bridesmaid role is more important than the gift - especially since your friend should realize how much you pay to other related tasks of the bridesmaid, including the bridal shower and expenses Bachelorette party. Suggest the pooling with other bridesmaids to get a more extravagant gift.

12. Pow-wow on how celebrations should go down

Speaking of all these parties - you and the other bridesmaids may have to plan them, depending on the type of marriage. Meet others to weigh on what will work and always make sure to include the bridesmaid if there is one. Remember that this should reflect his personality.

13. Tolerance is the key

Every bridesmaid should cut the bride to stay from the mold - even the laidback bride can temporarily turn temporarily into monster. It's a lot of pressure on it and a lot of attention - these two things, like a woman still under surveillance, can make you feel as if you will implore. Be tolerant and she will love you later.

14. Do not cross a line, but be ready to approach everything

Do not exceed borders, but approaching tasks with enthusiasm. Do not start and do not interfere with gossip and do not offer unsolicited opinions about the groom or anything else. Good energy only!

15. Keep calm and welcome others

Try to be so affordable and friendly as possible. With the role of the bridesmaid, people can ask you a lot, and they could also ask you a lot of questions. Try to be comfortable with a small conversation and get involved - encourage people to dance and host to others.