Good Lifestyle

Reply to a new person is always a bit awkward and the first dates are hard to navigate. We are all a little too shy or try to put our best foot before, but end up saying something stupid. There are some fakes that you have to be ready for some things you could let the first appointment slip. But at the same time, there are red flags that you really should be careful when you meet someone again - they can tell you a lot about this person you barely know.

1. Hygiene
Their breath smell fresh fresh? Do they have strange odors? Are their nails all clean and tidy? Trust me, a person who stinks and has dirty nails at the first date (once we all try to look for our best) is not a person you want to learn to know better. They are probably a mess.

2. No ways
Notice if they offer to open the door for you, do they allow you to order first, are they polite to you and the server at the restaurant. All this will allow you to know what kind of person they are. If they seem usually nice but command for you and are rude to the staff - it's not a nice person.

3. Bad listener
Being on a date is definitely about to know each other and keep the conversation, but it should be a two-way street. If you find that the person you are going out only for their turn to talk but do not really listen, they check the phone or constantly interrupt you - they do not really care about you.

4. Push the limits
You probably want your limits to be respected, is not it? So, if this new person is constantly trying to push them, it's not a good sign. If you let them know that you are not comfortable with something they should respect it. And it's not about intimate things, but even something as simple as asking too much personal questions too quickly and pushing answers.

5. Being too judged
If they constantly complain about something, rant and vent on the work, family family and never seem to see in a positive way in any situation - they are not in a good place and are probably not relationship materials.

6. No long-term plans
Living in the moment is great, but everyone should have a kind of long-term plan, a goal they work, things they dream of reaching at least one point at some point. But if everything happens in the air and they have no project in terms of relationships, family, work or travel - it's a red flag. They probably do not seek anything serious.

7. Eliminate exes
We all have ex-partners and it would be silly to claim that they do not exist, but the influx to the first date is a bad idea. It's far too early. The only thing he tells you is that they have not been displaced and are certainly not ready to meet new people. If they say you remember their ex-race. They are always in love with ex. If they say about them, it's even worse, you do not want to be the rebound.

8. Naughty teasing
A little flirty teasing can be fun, the banner makes conversations much more fun. But if they say something that offends you, do not pretend that it is not. Tell them they took teasing too far and they should stop. If they double or return your complaint by saying that you are too sensitive, you know it's a red flag.

9. They discuss too much
Having a healthy debate or a little discussions about things that you are not necessarily agreeing on can be educational and opening up for everyone, but if they are on a mission to prove a Point and continue to argue at the point of anger, it's not a big sign.

10. You have nothing in common
Somehow compliant with the previous red flag, but if you have nothing in common, why are you with this person? If none of your interests overlapping, you have opposite views about life and everything that happens because it is enough to argue that someone is not worth it.