Good Lifestyle

There are too many people whose perfectionism wins in the way of them living a happy and accomplished life. This is half of the problem, however. Because, besides these people, there are also far too many people whose life is made unreasonably difficult by the perfectionists surrounding them. There is little worse than a perfectionist leader (who does not know) or a perfectional parent. Here are 11 signs that someone (maybe even you) could be a perfectionist.

1. You know you have high standards
Be honest with yourself, it's half of the battle. If you know you have incredibly high standards, you are halfway to understand that you could be perfectionist. Having trouble finding friends? Having trouble finding people to start a relationship with because there seems to be something wrong with everyone around you? Take a quick minute to check if your standards may be too high.

2. You had good grades at school
Perfectionists make pets of great teachers. They know what standards are in a class, and they have no difficulty in meeting them (or going). This could take them for a moment, but on average, their work is always enough to get them at least one A on each test, test or presentation.


3. You are a person of extreme
Everything is all or nothing for you. You are either extremely messy or extremely organized. The core of this comes from a lack of motivation. And what is worse - this lack comes from your own perfectionism. After all, what is the point of doing anything at all if the end result is not perfect? How many projects, ideas, blogs, YouTube video ideas have you already abandoned? If the answer is "a lot", your perfectionism is perhaps the best of you and making it difficult for the creation of new projects because you are afraid that the end result is not perfect. And you must be perfect. You do not make you a little perfectionist?

4. You can not do anything quickly
And then, during the periods when you take new projects, they take you forever to finish. You will do the thing, decide that it's not good enough, redone the thing, and it will still not be as good as you want. And then, finally, the due date is tomorrow and you have to transform your work. Everyone could love him, but you will know that it's not the best absolute you could have done. (Pro Tip: It does not need to be.)


5. You think everything
The following level of efficiency efficiency after that is too long. Why do all the extra work do something again and again until it is perfect? And if, instead, you could simply plan everything, create a perfect strategy, then hit everything out of the park with a minimum of effort? Congratulations. You just played yourself. Now you will now have omnue all the time and you never get anything to do anything until the last possible moment.

6. Your room is a mess
There is a stain on your sofa. There is a chip in the wood on your table. What is the point of putting in all this work to keep your room tidy if it will never be perfect. Well, there are many good reasons, but none of these reasons are perfect, you could keep your room in disorder.


7. Your room is perfectly rowed
Unless you do not keep your room messy. Maybe a clean room can be a perfect representation of the perfect order and the cleanliness of your mind. If you keep this table organized, your bed makes, your tea cups stored well in the cupboard of the kitchen (where they belong) - Maybe you can use this environment perfectly stored to program your perfect plans and build your perfect life .

8. You are annoyed with anyone who is not good at work
You may have been very good to do your work / your studies perfectly that it becomes running when everyone around you does not make their best absolute and everything is going well in all their activities. There is no good reason why you must be the only one who works hard, while everyone is released. And yet, you are - a perfectionist surrounded by people who have no difficulty trying hardly. And it's an erasure.


9. You are bored of your own performance
It's worse in bad days, is not it? As, when you are tired and you simply do not have the energy to do your best that day, suddenly, you could also be disappointed with yourself. It's a terrible feeling and it seems that the only thing to do is to push and try louder, which makes you only exhausted. It is an endless cycle, and no matter what you may want - the only solution is to rest with good rest.

10. You land. A lot.
When your perfectionism meets your impulse and meets your fear of not being perfect - your engine stalls. Suddenly, you find yourself to put apparently simple tasks because you are afraid you can do something wrong with them. And then, if you can not even do things well, how can you accomplish one of your bigger tasks and your life goals? You do not know today, so maybe you can just do it tomorrow instead.


11. Nobody is perfect, but you feel like you're going to get there
Despite all the problems that perfectionism could cause you, you should realize that it could have made you a better person. You may be awell enough with your friends, you could work harder, you may have had a lot of pleasure in planning. The best thing to do is to accept this as a victory and work to try to be perfectly agree with your perfectionism. Or (and it's the healthiest option), maybe it's time to relax a bit and understand that no one is perfect and what do you wait for no more harm than Good.