Good Lifestyle

Getting married is a new exciting new chapter to undertake in your life. This means a new level of maturity and partnership in your life that can really help you flourish, but it is also a huge decision that could require a checklist before taking the big jump.

1. Travel together! We do not just want to say a weekend at the cottage. Take a long holiday or an international adventure together that will challenge the limits of your relationship in different contexts.

2. Go together. Getting married before living together, it's a disaster waiting to happen, even if it's quite normal in many cultures. Bringing to the oddity of someone is an important part of life in harmony and not fighting all the time.


3. Understand the values ​​of each such as politics and religion. These are subjects that we usually avoid a first date, but are very necessary for a committed couple to discuss so that their future is aligned.

4. Talk about if you want children. This can be a sticker subject for many, but if you guys, it's in the long run, it's a discussion that needs to be had. The compromises should have to be carried out according to the way you have invested in the decision.


5. Talk about any name change, such as if any of you will change his last name. This lack of discussion provokes surprisingly rifles between people, even if it seems a somewhat trivial decision towards a lot.

6. I learned that the most important people on the other live all the inner circles. Take a class or undertake a new experience that takes you both on the comfort zone, such as a cooking workshop, a TED conversation or a parachuting.


7. Have some major fighting. The feeling should never be repressed and fighting is healthy for a relationship. If you save everything for post-wedding wedding, divorce could be closer than you think.


8. Make sure to discuss finances, which is another great cause of divorce or combat in newly married couples. Do you have one of you from debt? Do you agree with the sharing of a current account?

9. Determine what you plan to cheat, or if the idea of ​​an open relationship seems to take your interest. Define these limits before helping to maintain confidence and eliminate poor communication potential. Clear definitions help keep couples on the same page.


10. Make sure you are seen in your worst and agree with that. If you have seen each other uglies crying and experimenting at the lowest low, you are on the healthy trail of marriage. If they can not stick it through the thickness and the wedding, the wedding might not be for them.