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I think I thought if you are interested in a guy, you should not wait, go there and make this first move. This is 2018, we no longer have to wait for men to approach us, we can take the lead if we want. However, I also see how it could be a bit awkward and uncomfortable, especially if you do not know the guy very well and that you do not know if it is even interested or not. And while the rejection is a normal thing and that we should all learn to deal with it and move on, no one really wants to deal with a rejection. Here are some tips you can use around the guy you like to see if he is interested before deciding if you should make your move.

1. Create a visual contact
This is one of the oldest tips of the book. If you create a visual contact with a guy across the room and that he does not look at the shot, it's a good song. It works pretty much the same if you are talking about. Just look at the eyes and continue the conversation, if he does not look away, smiles or blushes - you know he's in you.

2. Smile to him
Smiling to a guy and seeing if reciprocal is another good way to see if he is interested. If a guy does not know it completely, or looks away - it's probably not interested. But if he smiles back and continues to look at you, it's a pretty good indication that he loves you.

3. Enter your personal space
We are all very protective of our personal space and we do not like it to be invaded, unless it's a super hot and attractive person - so we do not tend to that. Use this to test if a guy loves you - just stay closer to him than what you would usually do and see if he keeps. If he stays right where he is - you know he does not bother you get up close and personal.

4. Leave the room
Otherwise, you can try to see if it is interested in visual contact and leaving the room to see if it comes to find you. If you are in conversation with him - even better. Do the excuse and leave the room for a while or find a friend to talk to. This will give you an excellent opportunity to see if it comes to search for you or is excited to see you when you come back.

5. Say a bad joke
If you already have a stellar sense of humor, it might be difficult to see if you love you, because it laughs good jokes anyway. But if you make a bad joke and always laughs or at least trying to save yourself by doing another bad joke himself - you know he loves you.

6. Speak gently and gently
Be strong for someone's attention is not always the best tactic. In fact, talking softer and more gently has more sense because you will see if he makes an effort to hear you and talk to you. Moreover, if he is interested, he will probably get closer to hear you better.

7. Keep a certain distance
It is hardly a secret for anyone that if you like someone you want to be physically close to them, then a good way to test if a guy is interested, is to try to keep your distance when you Walk with him or stand too far when you talk to him. If he gets closer - he is interested.

8. Use social media
If you are interested in someone - like some positions on social media, not too much, but enough to let you notice. Chances are that it will make the same by doing the same if it is interested or maybe even comment on something you have posted. It's a good sign that he is interested and you can then slip into DMS.

9. Ask him to meet friends of the family
If you dragged with a guy but you are not fully sure of his intentions, try to invite him to meet your friends or family. Do it something cold and last minute as a barbecue or a picnic, something that will not feel it as if it was a big deal and will feel welcome. If it is excited about it and chooses to come - you know it's in you.

10. Flirting shameless
Flirter is the safest method to find out if they are interested. If he answers and flirts back - you have his attention. If he rejects it, oh well, you gave a shot and it is not interested, it's not a big deal.