Good Lifestyle

Being single is definitely fun. You can do what you like, party with friends and continue as many dates as you want. There is certainly a call to be carefree and choose to stay that way. However, once you realize that you are ready for a relationship - that's where things are a bit difficult. We are used to thinking that there are a lot of fish in the sea and if that date is not good, it's not a big deal. There is always someone else there, you can drag straight. However, if you want to avoid terrible first dates, there are some tips that you should probably keep in mind. So, let's talk about the biggest digging you should avoid if you are ready to leave the scene of the singles.

1. Do nothing in common
Excellent great, being elegant, working and just being blessed with good looks will definitely attract people to you, but there is no chance to form a significant connection based on these things alone. This could work for a date or two, but in the end, if you have nothing to talk about it, it will not really work. You can not look at you and call it a relationship. You must have common interests, similar tastes in music or art or movies, at least one similar perspective on life. So when accepting out at a date with someone, make sure you have at least something in common. This will not guarantee you a "happy end" but hey, at least you will not bother you on a date.


2. Impoliteness
Being rude can look cool in movies and television programs that we look at, it makes the characters more interesting and eccentric. You may want the house Mr.D. For its sarcastic nature and you may like Sherlock for its total contempt of social norms, feelings of people and its offensive deductions at the border, but unfortunately, these things do not translate many real life situations. If you are going to be rude to someone, they will not think that you are brilliant, but slightly antisocial, they will just think that you are rude, and no one wants to waste his time on people impolite. So yes, save your sarcastic remarks and contextual deductions for later and be polished to whom you are on a date.


3. Be on the phone
Speaking to be rude, constantly checking your phone, sends texts or checking your social media notifications is also considered very rude, especially on a date. You may think that allows you to look busy, important or popular, but really, it seems like you prefer to be at home, on your phone only on a date. It is always better to turn off your phone on the first date or at least, disable notifications. In fact, just keep your phone in your handbag or face to face on the table, if there is an emergency - people will call you and you will know, but all your twitter drama can wait.


4. Raise your ex
This should be a no-obvious, but some people always commit the mistake of bringing their past relationships and their exètes on a date. Nobody wants to hear about your ex you or your experience or have deceived you, or anything else it was caused to your previous relationship. It's a sad subject that is not likely to expose you in the best light. People go to dates to meet new people and have a good time, then clearly turn off this topic. You can probably share hilarious anecdotes on the bad or clumsy dates that you have present in the past, if you do not have to rely on that. There are so many other things you could talk about.


5.Smoking
It might not be a big problem for you, but many people do not like smokers. It's not like they did not despise you completely like a human simply because you smoke, but nobody really wants to go out with someone who feels like an ashtray and must appear outside for a fast smoke break every 20 minutes. It is always better not to smoke on the first date and determine how the other person feels about it. Maybe they will not happen, maybe they are also a smoker, in which case it will not be a big deal, but still do not take this as an invitation to start blowing there, there -Bas, then. For others, it could be a circuit breaker of the case, so keep that in mind.