Good Lifestyle

Our life seems to go in the drain when our most important relationships cross a bad pass. It's easy to get caught in the small but boring details menus and forget how many good things have just been together with someone you like. Here are 12 tips to revive the happiness of your relationship.

1. Have an external point of view
Sometimes it is very easy to see your life like a, big, complete picture. You see your life as an individual in tandem with your other significant, making it a problem of relationship a problem "of life". Take a certain distance, and look at your relationship as an individual element. If your problems come from external factors, or how you communicate with your girlfriend or boyfriend. You are always much more than your relationship status.

2. LIVE YOUR LIFE
Parallel to the previous element, think of what you do with your life to make it exciting. It is unfair that you pin your boredom on your partner. They are your companion, not an entertainment station. Double down on the job, focus on your hobbies, and if you do not already start cooking. You will become more interesting and entertaining, and this will create new ways for you to bring some fire into your relationship.


3. Revive your friendship
The golden rule for long-term relationships is to "marry your best friend". Always keep this in mind. Doing things together - see movies, go to museums, go double dates, expand your common knowledge circle. Remember how the first steps of your exciting relationship were? Remember the weekly dates, stupid things you did in public? Yes - do again! You will notice an improvement in a short time!

4. Getting space
"The distance makes the heart more affectionate." I do not recommend that you move to another country and put an ocean between you and your other significant, but do something as simple as spending a week (or even a weekend) apart from helping you see how much you miss your partner. Sometimes even taking you for a movie will do enough. Take the time to be alone.


5. Focus on the little things
Sometimes it is easy to get carried away by the great "emotional" image of your relationship. However, consider that each repressed emotion has been caused by a large number of small details. It is safe to take your partner feels something like you. So, focus on small things. This includes small things you can fix (like the kitchen together, buying small gifts, showing signs of affection) and things you can improve (as the way you talk about, how you spend your Time together, how often you share your feelings with each other, etc.). Focusing on the little things, and before you know it - all the small changes will add to make a big, happy relationship.

6. Communicate
Do not just keep all your worries locked behind a huge wall of secrecy. If you are bored, angry or resentful - talk to your girlfriend or boyfriend about it. Find a quiet place and dedicate an hour of your time to share your concerns. It is very likely that your other significant does not know what's wrong (or something is wrong). Communication is the key to a lasting relationship, so do not waste! The Obama family communicate really well and share their plans with each other!


7. Trust Them
Trust that your partner will be understanding your feelings. It's simple here - if they care about you are going to care about how you feel, and if they are not they are not worth your time anyway. Relationships are a two-lane street, you must also make sure your boyfriend or girlfriend feels like they can share with you. They must be able to tell you how they feel without taking yourself personally and turning their own feelings against them. Trust each other.

8. Risk set
"Do a thing that scares you every day. »Of course, you can take their own risk, but taking risks with your partner will strengthen the confidence you have. You will both be excited, invigorated, and shaken. Go jumping to the elastic, skydiving, go together travel! Take risks and live together an exciting life.


9. Stay connected with your friends
Very often, people lose links with their friends when they start attending someone again. All of a sudden you spend all your free time with one person, and your friendships with other people start to decline. Do not put all your eggs in the same basket, and make sure you stay in touch with your old friends. The more you speak, the more the opinions you are exposed, the more the stories you can say. Keep your friends closely!

10. Do not attack on the past
I understand that there is a big difference between big problems (cheating, betrayal, broken confidence) and rancor. So, corrects the problems (if you can), but definitelyjust let go of grudge. Do not attract on this review at the same time you have received months ago. Instead, focus on how you communicate and spend time together and what you can do to build a happy future together. Feel as if you are the king of the world by looking in the future together!


11. Get help
Sometimes difficult conversations can be frightening. Tell your partner of what you feel can be embarrassing and you can feel that you understand your relationship by bringing your feelings at all. Couple therapy is an excellent option for that! You will be sitting in front of a professional "conversation guide" that will help you bring out your feelings and serving a lightning cane for explosions of negativity. They will be able to help you express your thoughts in a concrete and healthy way.

12. Stay positive
In the end, the most important thing you can do to keep your relationship alive and exciting is to be an optimist about it. Of course, it takes a lot of work to make things work, but a positive perspective will make things a lot, much easier for you two!