Good Lifestyle

Relations are not as simple as it in the Roma comes. They take a lot of work and the correct communication is the key. So, if you think you are lucky Hella because you have found this special person and you're in a relationship now - do not count your chickens yet for now. If something, staying in a relationship takes much more work than starting one. Now that you and your partner have accepted that you are exclusive and committed to each other, it's not time to relax. In fact, it's time to double the effort and effective communication.
Too many couples think that once they are in a relationship - it will work on it is clean and last forever. But the truth is - relationships are fragile and the smaller problems, problems and malchrames over time can lead to horrible battles at best and warmth at worst. Today, let's talk about 7 daily behaviors that can affect your relationship.

Not enough time "me"
Spending a lot of time together is completely natural once you are in a relationship, but it's important to have some time for yourself. You can not spend every day of life with your partner and do absolutely any whole. It's just not correct. You both need time to breathe, relax and do your own thing. You both need time alone to be with your thinking, enjoy your separate hobby and have a chance to miss the other person. Think about it, how can you look forward to seeing them if they are still there? So be sure to schedule in the enogh hour "me" time.

Get them out with your friends
One of the most common questions in a relationship is fighting who are friends, you will go out with. Of course, the common solution would be to invite the two sets of friends and hang together, but it does not always work. Instead, a lot of time that you end up getting your partner out with your friends. All is well and dandy and we get that you are trying to make them feel included, but they have their own friends and they need to go out with them too. In fact, here is an excellent solution that goes well with the previous problem of time "Me" - how about dragging each other with your own friends once in a while. This will give you both a chance to catch up with your friends and you will have a lot to talk once you're both returning to home.


Do not listen
In the first days, weeks and even months of seeing someone, all of them are new, interesting, exciting. We can not have enough. Every little detail of their life and their personality is like a small treasure. We cherish him. But after a moment, this excitement wears out and you start thinking that you know everything there is to know about the other person. You have the impression that you can almost predict their actions and their answers, that's how you know them well. So you stop paying so much attention when they speak. It's a huge problem, because even if you think you're not missing from anything new, you may miss your partner's resentment for you. In audition, but not really listen to your partner is forced to make them feel as if they did not import you. You do not want it to be? So always listen - it's crucial for a happy relationship.


Public fighting
The fights are not really unusual for a relationship. They release tension and allow you to work through problems. But once should never fight with their partner in public. These fighting never end well. In fact, we advise you to stay away to put your partner in public, even in a joke. Maybe when you're at home, you are constantly joking about your partner's inability to cook or stay tidy, or maybe they're clumsy and they might laugh with you. But you never know how they could react when you mention those things in front of their friends or colleagues. They could be embarrassed by these things or feel worried about them. It is always better to check what they are comfortable, or stay away from these things in public.


Assuming they can read your mind
Assuming your partner can read your mind and so is supposed to know when you feel sad, angry, bored, etc. And how to help you is a ridiculous notion, but some of us are definitely guilty of doing that. We think that since we have been in this relationship for a while and we know each other well enough and can therefore simply know intuitively what the other person thinks and how they feel. Well, it's not always too. Your partner probably does not have magic powers and can not read your mind. It is always better to talk about things, to vote your thoughts, to explain your feelings as simply and to increase your partner in hope, they only understand for themselves.


Feelings of projection
How many of you found yourself in a fight because of the projection of your feelings on your boyfriend or girlfriend? Too often, we choose to blame others for the way we feel instead of taking a step back and determine the real reason for your bad mood or hurt feelings. We say things like "you make me feel angry / bored / sad" instead of simply saying "I feel angry / bored / sad". There is a difference, you now? "You make me feel" accuses your partner, while "I feel" just states the fact. Make this small change and you will see exactly how much it can affect your relationship.


Be too critical
There is nothing wrong with a constructive criticism, but there is a time and a place for that. And all day, every day is definitely not this time or place. It's easy to fall into the habit of highlighting your partner's defects all the time, especially when you live with them. Can you imagine how annoying is to have someone who criticizes you from the moment you wake up? Just stop it. If something really bothers you, find a moment when you are both in mood to talk and get your concerns. Do not just criticize the criticism at your partner every time they do something wrong.