12 first date of the difficulties we know too well
Meeting is always a rollercoastre - you get these new butterflies from your stomach and that the feeling of enthusiasm is equal to nerve fears that cross your brain at a mile a minute. You have to balance the clumsiness of meeting a stranger that you could potentially sleep with, while acting totally normal and non-stressed at all. Here are some first rendering struggles that we can all relate.
Meeting is always a rollercoastre - you get these new butterflies from your stomach and that the feeling of enthusiasm is equal to nerve fears that cross your brain at a mile a minute. You have to balance the clumsiness of meeting a stranger that you could potentially sleep with, while acting totally normal and non-stressed at all. Here are some first rendering struggles that we can all relate.
1. Not knowing what to wear, too fantasy or not enough fantasy? Too sexy or too innocent? Unlimited options and you do not listen to any of them.
2. Should you shave your legs or not? You do not plan to go all the way, but if you're going out and things warm up, or if you're wearing a skirt and brushing against that?!
3. Try to walk on the line between a small conversation and learn more about the other. Keep away from the history of family policy and family condition, but I hope it is not a two-hour conversation on the time that feels to pull teeth.
4. Have the pressure exerted on you regarding the night's plans is the worst. Are you in a Netflix and Chill atmosphere and will it take this as another sign? Does a fancy restaurant put too much pressure on him to pay? What to do?!
5. On a related note, what does it not pay and expect us to spart the check? Has he came to wake up equal rights, or is it cheap or a freeloader? It is difficult not to make hypotheses based on the first impression.
6. Should you go to the natural or try to seduce it with a deep red lip or a sensual smoky eye? Hard to say what are watching guys, and they will never be bold enough to tell you. Ok, spend the next three hours of makeup, then wipe it, taking consecutive selfows that you send tips to friends. It's funny.
7. To show 5 minutes early, or fashion late? Is it strange to run precisely in time? This could make you look like a bizarre neurotic, but be late could also make you seem like a flake!
8. Just before the date you see this person who approaches, all thoughts run through your head on the fact that you should shake your hand or kiss them. What is too formal and what's too intimate? A cheek would she be weird? A kissing cheek would certainly be a little bit. What to do?
9. And during the date, do you think if it goes or not to plant this kiss on the first date at all the time. Or if you want to be a strong woman and make the first move.
10. Even if you want to order the massive bowl of the Squid ink fettuccine and that your mouth looks like a coal minor, you will avoid ordering something to mess and choose a salad all night, your belly grumbled like you Look at devouring steamless steak.
11. How many alcoholic beverages is it correct to consume? How do you find the balance between buzzing or gulf and complete on sloppy? Will he judge if you have more than two drinks, even if you want to fall from the whole bottle from the first jitters?
12. Have you ever talked about going out again? And if one of you ends to vibrate the other, but not vice versa? I do not want to look too much thirsty!
