18 reasons why you should not get married before turning 30
There is nothing negative about waiting; Here's why you should shrug the stigmatization and pressure to shout at the knot.
Many fantasy girls fantasizing on their perfect weeding, their perfect husband and what their lives like a perfect woman will look like. They are often twenty-something in this fantasy. Nobody dreams of dating losers for a decade before finding the guy who is actually wedding equipment. But you must understand that you are not yet wedding material, like many helpless guys, your age is not. Your 20 are all about understanding that. There is nothing negative about waiting; Here's why you should shrug the stigmatization and pressure to shout at the knot.
1. People claim that it is a kind of essential milestone on an invisible checklist that you must complete. In reality, three are so many other fulfilling milestones that do not need to find your future husband and that you should define these rather than feeling like you if you were single in your 20 years, it's something negative .
2. If you launch a wedding in your 30s, your other friends will have their shit together enough to afford a wedding of great destination, or another party that they could be broken to go in their twenties (and you will probably do it too).
3. Be totally comfortable in the areas of being emotionally independent will make you a better long-term partner. The more you have time to put your shit together in your twenties, better than a partner you will do in your 30s.
4. You have to go out with some men to determine what you want in the long run because it is difficult to know the bat right immediately. Even if you like your first partner, you do not necessarily know everything about yourself as you want and you need, and you may need time to grow up before understanding that.
5. Traveling for yourself is one of the most fulfilling and extensive things you can do to get out of your comfort zone and really know you. Doing this with a partner is a totally different experience and a good, but it is important to do first, when you are younger.
6. Because your "chess" are actually your greatest success - because you determine more and more what makes you really happy! Chess are just signs of learning and evolution, more, the more you fail, the more you work for your greatest happiness.
7. Because sometimes we can tend to settle when we are younger and less experienced. If we are frightened, we will never find someone who will compare to our first love, or a low self-esteem prevents us from being with someone we deserve, this fear can often prevent us from standing with someone One that does not really do you are happy. You deserve more than adjusting, so wait for it. Solo nights with Netflix and cheese are not so bad.
8. You have learned to become flexible and relax a little. When you are younger, you can often take the bad things too seriously and take you too seriously. Sometimes it takes age and maturation to know that your path is not always the right way.
9. Similarly, after this free and wild party, in your thirty, you will enjoy the quiet night and you are installing / the stability of the factor to be in a long-term relationship that would probably be boring when you are in your 20 years.
10. You will have more self-confidence and that you will be better equipped for more emotional balloons than life can start in relationships and managing them accordingly.
11. If you discover money from the elements of money when you are younger and without going to nobody, you avoid a future of financial fights in your marriage later. Financial independence and experience will take money talks with your less embarrassing and harmonious partner.
12. You are safer and stable in your career that will allow you to invest more time and energy in your relationship. Often, when you are younger and you try to sculpt you a career path, the ambition can be in the process of love, because both can be strong priorities difficult to juggle at the same time. When you are more established, you are more ready for a serious commitment in your love life.
13. You are in the sweet touch to settle when you are in your thirty. You are old enough to know what you want more, but not so old that you are on the dating scene and too tired to be excited to fall in love.
14. Statistically, things are on your side. Women who get married in their 30s instead of their twenties have a chance of greater chance of a marriage that will really last. The stereotype that half of the marriages ends in divorce is actually sliced in two if you stand right after you.
15. You are old enough to know the red flags and know better. You can tell tricks that are hidden the sleeves of guys and if someone plays you, and what is the right husband. What could have escaped you in your twenties, you will not be mistaken easily in your 30s - you are not as naive with suction cups.
16. Sexually, you know what you want more. You will not be stuck in a dead world and less orgasm. Nope, you have learned to require what you want, in the best possible way.
17. Love is not more true or valid if you are with the person for longer - you can meet your soul mate at 40 because you are more prepared as a human being and know what you want better in Life that when you were younger than when you were younger than when you were younger than when you were younger than when you were younger.
18. Your 1920s are all about freedom and oneself. Let yourself be discover and explore new things because your 20 is all about creating you and understanding who you are. If you are in a relationship, you will not exceed a person if they have the ability to change, and if you are single, take advantage of this independence.