19 disturbing signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship
Some red flags likely to occur in your relationship that you are not even aware. Sometimes you can also be stuck in the trend of your relationship that you do not really take a moment to stop me and ask me, "Is it really working?" Here are some terrifying elements to realize if you are in a relationship, but can be signs that may be time to let this person go.
Some red flags likely to occur in your relationship that you are not even aware. Sometimes you can also be stuck in the trend of your relationship that you do not really take a moment to stop me and ask me, "Is it really working?" Here are some terrifying elements to realize if you are in a relationship, but can be signs that may be time to let this person go.
1. You avoid confrontation. This means that the tension and the problems go buller under the surface and explode in the worst possible way, rather than pinch it in the bud.
2. Your partner blames others for their problems. Sometimes it can include you. Place the blame on other people means that you challenge your problems and you are not willing to own responsibilities and problems of your choice.
3. They look for what you have a small self-esteem on - Build yourself, then make the hero and taste the person. The turn is a tactic of horrible relationship.
4. They can not stop being sticky and very needy. They must be sung and are very dependent. They can not be independent and they do not want you to be independent. The couple who does not grow alone can not grow together. If you are still with this person, it's pretty unhealthy.
5. The other person wants to change you. This is the worst type of control. They do not know how to empathize with you and I just want to dominate you instead, bring you in the person they want you to be.
6. You influence you mutually bad ways, or someone influences the other bad manners. Whether it's an excessive party, or go out with the bad people; You should be edifying everyone's energies, do not bring you each other.
7. You are not honest with each other. Your partner retains his text messages from you and act suspicious and closed when you do not want to answer. Deception can only lead to pain in a relationship, even if the truth is difficult.
8. Your partner makes you feel less than you are. You should feel like the most important thing in the world - if you do not feel appreciated, get out of this relationship. You deserve to feel beautiful and your partner is supposed to make you feel like that.
9. They will not compromise for you. Or you do not compromise for them. If it's their way or the highway, the relationship is doomed from the beginning.
10. You feel that you are only with this person because you are stuck in a comfort zone. If you feel bad recurring cycles and you skip them, you only do "content" and stay in the relationship out of convenience.
11. You are afraid to say "no". Either you want not to be heard, or your feeling will be bulldozé. The fear of "no" is an indicator of fear, period.
12. You will fight on the little things in circles until it is pretty obvious that there is a bigger elephant hiding in the room. A ton of small arguments is an indicator of something bigger.
13. You are emotionally drained. You are just tired of this relationship. It's more drained than gratifying, and you feel depressed and exhausted.
14. You do not trust them. They do not care about your goals. They try to control and guide your life to what they want it. Someone else who controls with your aspirations is dangerous because you need your own ambitions of your hands.
15. You do not want to be able to confide in your partner. They do not care, otherwise they do not respect what you say, especially if it is something sensitive.
16. They try to make you jealous and a doormat when they speak to other girls. Or at the other end of the spectrum, they become super jealous with you. You are not allowed to talk to other guys, and you feel like your guy is usually just possessive. If he does not want you to hang out with your friends, it's another dangerous sign.
17. They do not give you the priority - they prioritize things like work and weekends with boys more than you. AKA, they are essentially indifferent to you.
18. You broke more than once. If you continue to break, there is probably a reason.
19. They want to keep your relationship with a secret. If you are not proud of the person you are with and you do not want to scream in the world, this could indicate an infidelity or other shady behavior.