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It could be an ordinary Tuesday night. There are 2 hours at the end of your work day. You take a sip of coffee and you feel absolutely inspired to organize a romantic evening in the middle of the work week. Then you are full of enthusiasm and you will buy his favorite Prosecco bottle and hurry to cook a medium-rare steak. Ok, it's time to calm me down. Everything is ready: the candles, the atmosphere and even the steaks are perfect. You have roses in your cheeks and look so beautiful to meet him. The 15 minutes passed, then the 25 years and finally in an hour, you received a message: "Sorry, baby, have too much work to do. Can not bear this death. I hope you understand. XOXO'.

Sound upbeat? I bet you feel the full range of these emotions of this SMS. Do not break dishes! Do not eat steaks and all dessert for yourself. Do not shout and do not cry (because I know you have already lived before). Do not go out, do not go out of control; Take a deep breathing and realize that this could be the alarm clock you need to analyze critically if his job is more important than you and maybe even may need to squeeze the hand and you to separate. Here are some tips that can help you survive and find out if you stay in the relationship or not.

1. He is closed and angry
You want to always intensify your conversations. Ask them a lot of questions that make sense for you. Show him that you are interested in the results of his meetings and briefings. You show your concern about the quality of his lunch or if he had a bad day in general. But all you get is that everything is fine. I am too tired to discuss it. It was an ordinary day. Let's go to bed.

2. "I miss you too" sentence
You do not remember the last time he tells you "I love you" or "I miss you" first. Whenever you start saying these love-dovey phrases and you get a quick "me too". Maybe it seems that his answer is tressed and really too short and sweet. More often, you hear "there are many people around and I can not talk to you as sweet as you want. Let's talk at home '. What happens at home, see above. You can only take a lot of this "non-communication" and you realize that there is something wrong with the relationship.

3. "Offline, what?"
He is in love with hidden gadgets. He sleeps with his iPhone on the pillow. His tablet and his laptop are still next to him. He has no unread e-mails and further thinks that he can not afford it. He never puts his phone in silent mode. He does not hesitate to pick up a business call during love-doing. How sticky! It will never miss incoming information, even if an earthquake occurs. You realize that its tasks are its main priority. If you are not the priority during its hour at home, you have to find someone who will make you feel like the center of the universe. What happens is just not right.

4. No plan. No guarantee.
He has always put his career plans before your deprived. If you start discussing the nearest future plans, the first thing it does is to check your work schedule. He travels willingly for his work and he still seems inspired to plan and discuss them. But when it comes to your romantic holiday tons of things to do and not seeming to cultivate and kill the excitement of the two of you who escape you. There are no doubts or problems with his work plans / travels, but there always seems to be a list of laundry of complaints about your individuals. It is not higher back on its promise to take you to your favorite ski resort that you have booked weeks before or even cancel the flight for this long weekend in the country of your dreams. At worst, it does not feel any guilt for that. No promise, no responsibility.

5. The little things do not really count
He leaves the family will meet to check his employment projects or attend one of the informal employment meetings because it is "useful for us and our future". He does not want to hear that there is more lifetime than working. As a general rule, he jumps the BD parts of your closest friends and the bands were limited to sending his best wishes and a gift. He never remembers important dates like your birthday and maybe even spaces of your birthday ... Ouch!

6. MR 'TIME-IS-MONEY'
He does not want to waste his time spending his time without achieving results or scoring a successful performance. Just walk and talk? Eating ice and a store a little? Forget! You are dealing with a Workaholic. Every moment of life, he believes as an opportunity to reflect and gain more money or ultimate determination. All your arguments on how you should spend your free time getting the answer: "Do you make fun of me? I am the source of our income. So let me just do what I should do '

7. Your intimate life does not have privacy
Remember that his phone is his priority? I simply know his boss and his staff are still under the sheets of your bedroom. It does not worry about preliminaries or any kind of particular atmosphere. Its program is not elastic and its intimate weather with you is always limited. Having sex for this guy is like attending another meeting - it is planned and of course you have to stay on the program! It becomes aggressive when things go wrong and require more time. Your real intimacy attempts become less numerous and fewer between the two. Reaching a "Real-O" becomes a very rare event. Maybe you forget what it is to be done and sexually satisfied? His "Real-O" arrives when his boss gives him another "tata boy" or the bonus at the end of the month is bigger.

8. Do not keep in
Most men who are in a strong relationship do not want to see their wife or registry from the scene or hit the party scene. They always take care of your free time and people with whom you communicate. As a general rule, they want to see their lover at home or near them - Safety and sound and finally settle for the relationship. If he is so busy that he can not give you a quick call, ask yourself how you are and who you are suspended, then he probably does not care much. His work project has more sense and has more relevance to him.

9. Your opinion is not considered relevant or important
You can not connect. He does not need your advice. It is not interested in your point of view. Even if you spent several months or even years supporting it in its career building and that you thought all about his job, he did not pay any attention to your comments. Let's be honest, sometimes we know even more than we show, but always tries to be wise and we may keep our mouth closed when we should talk. Unfortunately, our ideas go unnoticed and underestimated. He thinks you are not qualified enough to find the right way to solve his problems or give him useful tips.

10. 'Take my money and have fun'
It cancels the date or just tells you that it is too busy to meet or go home on time. If he does it right now, be willing to hear "Oh honey, take just my card \ cash and go shopping with your friends. Buy something really extravagant and luxurious or everything you would like '. This is the most common trick of Workaholic BFS / Maris. They still think they can buy you a good time with a new dress or shoes. They are daring to give you as much money as necessary to avoid these conversations on his permanent absence and lifestyle stirring. They use this old school stuff to put you from your guard; and close the conflicts. Such actions tend to close your life and close at the same time! Did I build a sugaryly scandalic image here?

There is really no money ball to solve this dilemma. You will have to deal with the reality that perhaps for your own happiness and mental health you need to get out of this relationship. Life can play jokes on us. Workaholic syndrome is difficult to break; It's not impossible, but it's hard to change someone who lives this kind of existence. Be honest and goal for your own good and your mental health! Look closely if he likes his job or love you more. Also close your real needs - can you support a Workaholic

BF / Husband. The workers need love too but just in different ways and on their schedule; Can you deliver in different ways of your guy or do you need to fine a more traditional, giving / giving man who can really forget the work and sometimes focus on you. Good luck to find the real answer for your well-being.