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Today, ladies are talking about one of the main relationships of "painful spots". This is the distance. I'm sure everyone has experienced this kind of love. I mean, not a romance or the case in the short term. I mean the R-E-L-A-T-I-O-N-S-H-I-p. It always happens accidentally. Admitting that no one has ever dreamed of distant love, then to be loved hundreds and thousands of kilometers from your home. But life is delicate and does not leave us frankly to rest too long! So, I will not even try a candy coat. I know most of you shout now: "There is nothing to talk about, Ldrs sucks." Come girls! But what should they have recently met with their match on the other side of the Planet? I know the answer. They should follow this survival guide of the distant relationship.
I promise it will increase your chances of succeeding and dare I said, you have fun. First be prepared that your friends will advise you to take it easily and even to jump. Everyone will tell you that it is a waste of time and everything you will have at the end is the pieces of your broken heart. If you turn a deaf ear on it, go ahead. Yes, some things could be complicated. Be ready, you will be lonely and even sad sometimes. But also, there are many things that Ldrs is more sweet: feel the smell of each other, walk, eat together, sleeping side by side. Simple things that make us happy, but remain unnoticed by ordinary couples. When you and your DTR and you finally end up together and many other things are more pronounced and more precious.
If you dare to try it and want to keep your distance in love alive, follow these 10 rules that really work.

1. Talk it but avoid excessive communication

You two, you do not really have to speak 20 hours a day. This is the main mistake of most LDR couples. They think they should compensate for the physical absence of others by endless phone calls and skype. It will make you sick and tired of very little time.
2. Share the time of moments
Send your selfie gym. Show him your clay classes photos. Get familiar with your friends online. Imagine that you drink your morning coffee and send it a shot of his cup. If he is interested in you, he will be interested in the world in which you live. But do not activate your cat with him in your Instagram account. Remember you less it's more. No spamming, it's all about to hang out the two of your dipstops.

3. Be honest
Do not play a surprising role a person who is not you. Be authentic, be honest! Do not fantasize the additional details of your daily life trying to look more interesting than you. Do not exaggerate and tell him fairy tales. Do not hide your emotions. Discuss feelings and values ​​on the initial stage of your relationship. The more the honesty shown at the beginning of your romance, the more your love will grow and will remain alive for a long time.
4. Be careful and attentive
Do not forget to ask him with his family and his family. You can show how much you are thoughtful and interested if you share your week's program with it - and it with you! It will be happy to receive your message with the wishes of good luck and success for the week to come or wish him good luck for a family dinner that appears on the calendar. Follow your daily life moments and take your interest for smaller details. This is what makes a couple close to each other despite the distance. Share your problems and decisions. Do not hesitate to ask for his advice. In this way, you will show him how important his opinion is.

5. Be creative and surprise yourself
Cook cupcakes with its name on top. Go to the cinema and see the same movie and give some comments on Messenger. Imagine that there is no distance between you and everything is possible. Send small gifts or gift cards that can be delivered directly to his apartment or at his desk. All these details keep the fortif of Lovey-Dovey.

6. Enjoy the time alone
It's your choice to be alone or to be alone. Your life is not just Skype calls and viber messages. Remember that you are always your own person. Live your life, celebrate every day. Stay happy because you are in love. Do not skip interesting events, do not forget to attend the holidays and do not miss to fill yourself with real life. Take this time to do more with your family and friends. Go to the gym more often and stay in shape. Bet that he will be proud to hear that you are so intelligent and assured.

7. Pursue a hobby together
Send music from music, recommend books, play online games. Go for the same sports or start learning the same foreign language. This will give you the additional possibility of disputes or share your results and small victories. There is nothing better than creating and sharing experiences even if you live separately.
8. Define the barriers of scandalous situations
If you already know that the night club visits or you have some pictures with your friends will give you BF, you only have two ways to solve this problem: 1) Do not do it; 2) Discuss it in advance and find a compromise. Do not be careless about it. This type of material can play ravages with your relationship. Doing things despite her opinion, you put it in a powerful position and make her think he does not mean anything for you.

9. Make plans together
What about your first NYE celebration? Or Thai holidays that you dream of you? There are many things we always put for later. This is the perfect time for your dreams to come true. Set the exact dates for small and global events. This gives you a common ground.
10. Set a goal
Do not be afraid to discuss your future. Questions such as "What do we want to achieve?", "How long are we considering being separated?", "What do you want from this relationship?" Are not stupid or pushed if we speak in the context of a serious relationship. These are really essential aspects that keep your love in progress. It is not a long time promises or oath of eternal love in loyalty. This is the simple sentence that means a lot: "You are the one I need".

Now, I want to share with you a list of quotes from my friends about Ldrs, depending on their private experiences of course. You judge and can trust them or not, but each of his stories took place.

Julia: 'OMG LDRS?! Are you serious? Skip it, darling. It's a kind of relationship you simply call from time to time. It's a fake. It's a total illusion. I am not sure that you are ready to win 10 extra pounds because your nearest friends will be a cookie jar and a glass of wine on Friday night. The only ASANA you can learn during this relationship period is a "shavasana bed". Do not even think about it. But do you know what? I will always remember my two years in the LDR-Earth. '
Iris:'What? Long distance relation? This is the most stupid decision you can ever do. But it's the only kind or relationship I have.
Anastasia:'Oh my God! It is full of sweet moments, better compliments, night discussions and funny skype shots. My experience lasted a year and a half. Then he married.
Married:'It's absolutely normal. This is the true form of modern relationship. Who needs these dates of trait in person? Sorting the difficulties of a LDR make our lives more brilliant. LDR helps you see the world and even yourself with different angles. It's like a test of your moral virtues. It measures the level of your faith and your creativity. Absolutely not-try.
Nataly:"I believe in remote love. The only thing you need is to have a final destination. If you even know the approximate date, you will be together forever, go ahead. If you do it just to have fun without working hard, you'd better stop it now.
Lesia:"Long distance love is hard and magical. My remote relationship has been strong and hard for 5 years and ended up with a wedding. My husband and I crossed the different tests and finally got the test. I can not even imagine what else can help people trust the distance as the distance. I really appreciate the distance we had between us. It's our own love tour. It taught us the real things and the emotions that most people have already lost. "